dingodan
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- Feb 16, 2011
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About once every year or so I am minded to post this video, I really wish some of you guys would take this message on board and come to understand, with humility and good grace, that there are problems with the ways you are approaching views which are different from your own and the people who hold them.
You might think that listening to people you disagree with, and giving them a fair hearing without trying to confirm your own prejudices, would somehow weaken your own "position". Actually, it would make you a better person, clearer on where you stand and why. If you are right, then no problem that will bare itself out. But if you are at all wrong, or making any errors in the way you are thinking about things, or the way you are looking at other people, then it might help you to correct them. That would be good for those other people, but it would be good for you too. Infact I would argue that it's the first necessary step towards making the world a better place.
"The greatest challenge I faced was peeling back the layers of my own bias. It turns out I did meet my enemy while filming, it was my ego, saying that I was right, and they were subhuman."
Cassie Jaye
You might think that listening to people you disagree with, and giving them a fair hearing without trying to confirm your own prejudices, would somehow weaken your own "position". Actually, it would make you a better person, clearer on where you stand and why. If you are right, then no problem that will bare itself out. But if you are at all wrong, or making any errors in the way you are thinking about things, or the way you are looking at other people, then it might help you to correct them. That would be good for those other people, but it would be good for you too. Infact I would argue that it's the first necessary step towards making the world a better place.
"The greatest challenge I faced was peeling back the layers of my own bias. It turns out I did meet my enemy while filming, it was my ego, saying that I was right, and they were subhuman."
Cassie Jaye