Maybe the conversation was something like "it has been known since March that you want to leave BHAFC. We have reached a decision about your departure and you will be receiving a confirmation email later today"? Of course I have no idea if the conversation went like that at all but I bet it was along similar lines.
The phone call in March by Poyet also explains his post match comments after the Palace.games. He had no intention of staying at the club.
Yes - the whole thing falls into context now. At the time it seemed to be a "goodbye" message despite Andy Naylor telling fans not to misinterpret it. After what TB said on Tuesday, it's clear that Gus was mentally leaving the club even if he wasn't being released. It also explains why he hardly ever did media from then on. Basically he was sulking.
Having thought things through after hearing what TB said (it takes a while for things to to sink in with me ) I can't help feel that as Gus had made his intentions to go clear prior to the Palace game and as Reading came in a few days later, would it not have been better for the club to accept some compensation and cut ties.... hindsight and all that, but if he had already shown his desire to leave perhaps it would have been better to use the Reading approach to everyone's advantage rather than insist on retaining someone as manager who didn't want to be there (and who it could be said didn't really throw himself into the final 2 months of the season as we'd hoped he might). I suppose had that been the case, we'd have Adkins in charge now though....
Not a criticism of the club's stance, just an observation. I was mightily impressed with Tony Bloom on Tuesday - the club's in good hands.