Now sweetpea, it's clearly a massively big deal for you, I get that, even though it's none of our business, thanks for the honesty.
But the rest of us knew already, and we're all fine with it.
The members of your family that were surprised are either lying or have never met you!!
I guess he's coming out ahead of a tabloid muck raking 'scandal'.
The story should be why they feel the need to publish such information.