Stay in with the Missus or Go out with mates?

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Stay in with the missus? Out with Mates?

  • Stay in with the missus- "You might get alittle bit."

    Votes: 8 22.9%
  • Go out with mates- "Don't let women win."

    Votes: 18 51.4%
  • Can't you do both?

    Votes: 8 22.9%
  • I'm staying out of this one, my missus is behind me threatening me!!!!

    Votes: 1 2.9%

  • Total voters
    35


Basil Fawlty

Don't Mention The War
NSC it is down to you, to decide what I'll do on Thursday evening. My missus wants me to stay in. My mates from work want me to go out for a meal and then Oceania afterwards. The meal is monthly with the lads from work, but now it looks like it won't happen if my missus, gets her away.

So who should I let down..... up to you NSC!
 






Adam Virgo's Shirt

I took Adam's shirt off!
Oct 7, 2006
1,024
IOW ex Worthing
Haven't you just spent weeks winning her back?

Personally I would never stop my bf going out with his mates. You need time apart, and it's only 1 night after all. I would say go with your mates and don't let her dictate what you do with your time or you'll set a precedent.

It's your life after all. What will you do if she buggers off again and you're left with no mates cos you abandoned them all for her?
 




Mar 13, 2008
1,101
Meal and then home. Dont go to that shit hole. (i have never been tbh)
 






fatboy

Active member
Jul 5, 2003
13,094
Falmer
Your bird is fit KEV, stay in.
 








Elder for England

New member
Jan 30, 2008
2,388
Do you see her most evenings? If so why is she stopping you going out it's only one night. Personally I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend wanted to go, you can't dictate what people should do. It's once a month, I say go!
 






fatboy

Active member
Jul 5, 2003
13,094
Falmer
Do you see her most evenings? If so why is she stopping you going out it's only one night. Personally I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend wanted to go, you can't dictate what people should do. It's once a month, I say go!

Is Kev your boyfriend?!
 










fatboy

Active member
Jul 5, 2003
13,094
Falmer
Get her to meet you at Ali's house.

He can be your fluffer.
 


British Bulldog

The great escape
Feb 6, 2006
10,974
Go out with your mates Kev, If you give into her this time it wont be long before your going shopping on saturday afternoon's instead of going to football.
 






Haven't you just spent weeks winning her back?

Personally I would never stop my bf going out with his mates. You need time apart, and it's only 1 night after all. I would say go with your mates and don't let her dictate what you do with your time or you'll set a precedent.

It's your life after all. What will you do if she buggers off again and you're left with no mates cos you abandoned them all for her?

What kind of mates would THEY be then? ???

I abandoned my mates for 25 years living abroad, and another school pal went to Aus 30+ years back. We get together and nothing's changed - safe as houses.
 


The trick is to set up a going-out situation on a regular basis - make it up, just invent a 'lads night out'. Then, you keep cancelling this non-existent night-out-with-the-lads, telling her she's too special and you'd rather stay in with her.
Even talk on the phone so she can hear you apologising and TELLING your mate how she means so much, and a night in with her is heavenly.

Then, when you tell her about a REAL night out rendezvous, sound reluctant and let her say "oh go on then, it'll do you good to maintain your friendships with your pals". Then you go out and do the town bigstyle, guilt-free. :thumbsup:
 


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