Single women over 30

[Hatterlovesbrighton]

I think the difference is where you meet women who are over 30 needs to be different to where you meet under 30's. I met my wife in a nightclub but if I was single now (i'm 33) then I probably wouldn't want to meet someone my sort of age in a nightclub.

 

[magoo]

Thats because if a man can cheat, he will. I don't think its so much a case of women being mental over a certain age but I do think most women are heavily over influenced by advertising, tv and films, other women and a myriad of other sources to expect too much from a bloke. The different criteria and wish list of most over 30 women who are single is just ridiculous whereas blokes on the other hand are much more simple and generally go for 'is she fit' and 'will i get laid'. I can't ever remember going out with a girl because she made me laugh or because we had a great discussion, great qualities that they are to have though.

Can't agree with any of that. If a man has the opportunity to cheat doesn't mean he will, unless he's in an unhappy relationship. Also i would tend to say it's younger women more influenced by the media than older women. I'd say older women are much more willing to accept th eperfect man doesn't exist as it's been knocked out of them over the years lol.

 

[The Fifth Column]

Can't agree with any of that. If a man has the opportunity to cheat doesn't mean he will, unless he's in an unhappy relationship. Also i would tend to say it's younger women more influenced by the media than older women. I'd say older women are much more willing to accept th eperfect man doesn't exist as it's been knocked out of them over the years lol.

Yeah I know its a broad generalisation and its not a hard and fast rule but if you took 100 blokes and 100 women in normal relationships and gave them the opportunity to get laid with a gorgeous girl or man of their dreams with no chance of being found out, then a very large proportion of the men would do it and very few of the women would. Its just nature, men are genetically programmed to shag, women are genetically programmed to be picky about who they shag. I do disagree with the younger/older woman argument too, older women have had even longer to get entrenched in their views and in my experience are the pickiest most hard to please when it comes to choosing men. Just for fun as an example, one of my wife's friends lives her life based on the programme Sex and the city, she treats it like it is a guide on how to get on in life and meet men etc, she recounts quotes from various episodes as if they are tracts from the bible, she wants to dress like them & be like them, headmental? definitely, 42 and single - oh yes.

 

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[Gwylan]

Just for fun as an example, one of my wife's friends lives her life based on the programme Sex and the city, she treats it like it is a guide on how to get on in life and meet men etc, she recounts quotes from various episodes as if they are tracts from the bible, she wants to dress like them & be like them, headmental? definitely, 42 and single - oh yes.

Sure, there are some weird women around but there are some equally strange men. Talk to any woman of 35 and above and they're sure to tell you stories about the bloke with the collection of pieces of string, or the bloke who can recite the phone dialling codes of every city in Europe. Just take a look at the platforms on any major station at the weekend and you'll see plenty of examples of misfit males.

 

[nwgull]

I got married at 25 to a girl I met when I was 21, and divorced at 29. I've found it much easier to attract girls than I used to, so I can only conclude that older women are less fussy, or at least change their criteria over time (as I don't think I became significanly better looking in the 8 years I was with my ex wife)!

I certainly don't think 30s single women are headmental from my experience. In fact they've generally spent a fair bit of time standing on their own 2 feet, which for me is way preferable to a girl who has always lived under the roof of either parents or with a partner. In general the 30+ women I've met have been lovely and much less shallow and more interesting than the younger girls, oh and dirtier in bed as well!

 

[nwgull]

I got married at 25 to a girl I met when I was 21, and divorced at 29. I've found it much easier to attract girls than I used to, so I can only conclude that older women are less fussy, or at least change their criteria over time (as I don't think I became significanly better looking in the 8 years I was with my ex wife)!

I certainly don't think 30s single women are headmental from my experience. In fact they've generally spent a fair bit of time standing on their own 2 feet, which for me is way preferable to a girl who has always lived under the roof of either parents or with a partner. In general the 30+ women I've met have been lovely and much less shallow and more interesting than the younger girls, oh and dirtier in bed as well!

 

[Sensitive_Guy69]

Most dating websites/nights are packed with women in their 30s. You never get 18 year old stunners cos they get snapped up by all their pricks.

Fast forward 10 years and the same stunners are now single mums with baggy snatches, insecure, their self esteem trashed and warey of all men they meet because they've been so f***ed around in the past. And who wants 'em? Nada.

 

[Westdene Seagull]

Most dating websites/nights are packed with women in their 30s. You never get 18 year old stunners cos they get snapped up by all their pricks.

Fast forward 10 years and the same stunners are now single mums with baggy snatches, insecure, their self esteem trashed and warey of all men they meet because they've been so f***ed around in the past. And who wants 'em? Nada.

Glad to see you living up to your name !

 

[Sensitive_Guy69]

Glad to see you living up to your name !

If I were to reveal my true identity, you might not be so surprised

 

[Lord Bamber]

Most dating websites/nights are packed with women in their 30s. You never get 18 year old stunners cos they get snapped up by all their pricks.

Fast forward 10 years and the same stunners are now single mums with baggy snatches, insecure, their self esteem trashed and warey of all men they meet because they've been so f***ed around in the past. And who wants 'em? Nada.

Interesting sweeping outlook.

 

[Sensitive_Guy69]

Interesting sweeping outlook.

I'm not generalising, well ok I am... just one possible counter-argument to the OP's question, that's what we're doing in this thread right?

 

[Lord Bamber]

I'm not generalising, well ok I am... just one possible theory to the OP's question, that's what we're doing in this thread right?

Indeed we are although some of the sweeping generalisation does seem to be excessive.

We all come in different wrappers & are different flavours. Not all are nuts, some are hard, some are soft, some liked by a lot, others, not a lot.

 

[Notters]

Thats because if a man can cheat, he will. I don't think its so much a case of women being mental over a certain age but I do think most women are heavily over influenced by advertising, tv and films, other women and a myriad of other sources to expect too much from a bloke. The different criteria and wish list of most over 30 women who are single is just ridiculous whereas blokes on the other hand are much more simple and generally go for 'is she fit' and 'will i get laid'. I can't ever remember going out with a girl because she made me laugh or because we had a great discussion, great qualities that they are to have though.

Speak for yourself, rather than calling all men cnuts! It wories me that anyone thinks like that and I disagree with pretty much everything that you say.

 

[glasfryn]

Total bollocks, really.

absolutely

 

[Mr Banana]

If you want to take an evolutionary psychology point of view, the only reason to be "in a relationship" is to come together to breed, or because you need someone to help look after the products of your breeding.

The rest is just romantic bollocks.

Romantic bollocks is my favourite

 

[HastingsSeagull]

Looks fade, personality generally doesn't. At 28 I've given up looking for 'fit' women and instead want someone who's not a nut-job! Women who are good looking are generally now pure attention seekers if in their 20's. Crap in bed as never do anything and have only had rutting pissheads all over them, yet had so many due to them going out drinking for free 3-4 times a week with their multiple guy friends (most of whom are in relationships or married to old women just to put it out there) and most round here at least have young kids often by multiple men. This is juding women in their early 20's I work with and am aquaintances with or friends bunk up with not just generalising.

Unless I look at uni's for 18-21 year olds with a personality and biggest rarity some self esteem, which is pushing the age gap a bit, 20 something women are the mentals in my experience only after model guys who have to treat them like shi t else they're not interested! From their mouths not mine because they have to have 'drama' and a six pack even if not good looking. Even non good looking 20 something women seem to have no self esteem too and so rather than shagging every married good looking rich guy or complete wanker, dream after some creepy foreign crime watch guy who sponges off them, rather than settle for the nice guys their age who think they're amazing (couple examples of that at work and they just muck these poor lads around stringing them along forever).

Single women in their 30's seem to be a different generation to the 20 year olds and are near enough to them to want to have loads of fun unlike 30 somethings maybe 10 years ago who knows, but near enough to the decade above to have more traditional views and ideas at the same time. Perfect mix and not after 'bad boys' to try and change and constantly be worrying over, but a guy with average to good looks, great personality, healthy, enough money to support himself but not nessersarily her and potential kids in future and who's not going to mess her about.



On the whole rich women wanting wealthier men I do think this is deffinitly the case at comfortable, and minted levels, but the well off middle category want someone who can support himself but be reliable. Women these days do earn more and it's a good thing, but biologically is a wish still to be supported and to look after the guy and family of someone who is providing. Like guys gender role has blurred so has women's and that's why these 20 something women out being guys on the town is messing everyone's heads (not helped by the media). Also those minted women, all the minted guys want young models so they are single, and same with most of the comfortable women I imagine soon, all the weathier guys after one thing so they are maybe the picky ones people mentioned.

Just putting this all out there far too serious for a footie board

 

[Pretty pink fairy]

man up and get a grip you bunch of soppy twats !!!

 

[magoo]

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[Spun Cuppa]

I remember a few years back two girls posting together on the Friday-Ad dating site, giving all their spiel, then concluding with, 'No DSS, no half-wits, no geeks...'

Sort of ruled out 75% of the men in Btn/Hove