Spot on. And Ockenden Manor certainly earns their star. The flavours and textures on the plate are amazing. If you're after a good nosh then maybe starred places are worth avoiding but if you want to see what can really be done with good ingredients then treat yourself.
Totally agree. All the starred restaurants I have been to are an experience above just eating. One interesting theme which runs through the 6 starred places I've been to is whilst they are formal, they are never stuffy or pretentious. They are just bloody good at what they do. I'm sure there are some but I've not been to any yet. I've been to a few fancy posh restaurants where the food is nowhere near as good but the staff and the venue are right up their arses and think they're a lot better than they actually are.