Yep, that five minutes with Rachael after her Pilates class in between Chelsea getting permission to approach and him leaving training for London must rush to the back of both their minds at regular intervals.As he said himself - if he wanted an easy life, he would have stayed at Brighton.
It's obviously not great that his and his family's mental health is being impacted. BUT it was entirely, 110% predictable that this would happen. He absolutely MUST have known, and surely, surely discussed it in some detail with his family (certainly his wife). He then obviously thought it was worth it for the money. I don't wish ill on him, but I really don't want to hear him moaning on about it. It's rather like someone going out in the rain without a coat and complaining about getting wet!
Because they obviously couldn't have discussed it before.......