A friend of mine (yes I know that old chestnut!) has recently gone on POF the dating site. I helped him with his profile and left him to it. Today I asked him how he's getting on and he said oh it's great I've had 6 emails of girls wanting to meet me, trouble is the site wants £8 a month to allow me to respond to messages. I was led to believe that Plenty of fish was a free dating site? Now it's not the kind you just ask friends and family but is anyone on here able to admit using the site and explain to me how it works...... So I can pass on to my friend!