I think he requested that he could leave so they could go back to Northern Ireland.Way to kick a man when he's down.
My wife had one of these two years ago. Good news is that it was not malignant and was totally removed by the terrific team at Hurstwood Park in Haywards Heath. Hope Paddy's wife is similarly lucky. Thoughts with her, Paddy and their family.
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Sad news, does happen unfortunately. I remember Kishishev for us had to leave in similar circumstances.
All the best to Paddy and his family