KZNSeagull
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Another interesting morning. Nel is essentially showing that Oscar is someone who does not take responsibility for anything and his relationship with Reeva was all about his needs. He is doing this in 2 ways:
The Tasha incident when a gun went off in a crowded restaurant. Oscar says he was handled the gun when it went off, did not check to take the magazine out, accepts that according to unchallenged evidence in court, it is impossible for that gun to go off without pulling the trigger, yet he refuses to accept that he pulled the trigger! Nel described the firing of this gun as "a miracle".
They also went though the 2 messages from Reeva where she says that she is scared off him and obviously pissed off with him for his actions and public tantrums. Oscar says some of what is in those messages were not true. When he says this, Nel reminds him that he shot her so we cannot challenge what he says is true or not. But the point of all this was to show to the court that this relationship was all about him and his needs and that he was not particularly bothered about Reeva's feelings, as there is not much in his replies that shows that he cares about what he thinks. For example, he apologises for what happens, but then blames her for what happened anyway and she was not fitting in with what he wanted to do.
There was also a bit where Reeva complained to Oscar about a song playing in a car on the way home from a function where they had had an argument in the car park - Nel suddenly realised that what she meant by something in her mail was referring to the title of this song "Bitch, Don't Kill my Vibe" by Kendrick Lamar! So Nel is saying that Oscar and his mate put that song on deliberately, to publically demean and humiliate her. Oscar has already said that he did have tantrums in public, but always plays down how public those tantrums were. She felt humiliated by him in public, as described in her messages, and Nel is essentially saying that he was not bothered about that.
At the start of play he asked why Oscar had only apologised in court and not before to the Steemkamps. Again, Nel read out the apology and at no point does Oscar say sorry for shooting their daughter - he apologises for their pain and suffering, but not for actually shooting her. Again, he is not taking responsibility.
[MENTION=3969]Billy the Fish[/MENTION] - we can see clearer now why they were going on about what was an accident. It is another example of Oscar not taking responsibility. He was holding the gun but firing it 4 times was an accident. They will come back to this I am sure later on, as it is crucial.
The Tasha incident when a gun went off in a crowded restaurant. Oscar says he was handled the gun when it went off, did not check to take the magazine out, accepts that according to unchallenged evidence in court, it is impossible for that gun to go off without pulling the trigger, yet he refuses to accept that he pulled the trigger! Nel described the firing of this gun as "a miracle".
They also went though the 2 messages from Reeva where she says that she is scared off him and obviously pissed off with him for his actions and public tantrums. Oscar says some of what is in those messages were not true. When he says this, Nel reminds him that he shot her so we cannot challenge what he says is true or not. But the point of all this was to show to the court that this relationship was all about him and his needs and that he was not particularly bothered about Reeva's feelings, as there is not much in his replies that shows that he cares about what he thinks. For example, he apologises for what happens, but then blames her for what happened anyway and she was not fitting in with what he wanted to do.
There was also a bit where Reeva complained to Oscar about a song playing in a car on the way home from a function where they had had an argument in the car park - Nel suddenly realised that what she meant by something in her mail was referring to the title of this song "Bitch, Don't Kill my Vibe" by Kendrick Lamar! So Nel is saying that Oscar and his mate put that song on deliberately, to publically demean and humiliate her. Oscar has already said that he did have tantrums in public, but always plays down how public those tantrums were. She felt humiliated by him in public, as described in her messages, and Nel is essentially saying that he was not bothered about that.
At the start of play he asked why Oscar had only apologised in court and not before to the Steemkamps. Again, Nel read out the apology and at no point does Oscar say sorry for shooting their daughter - he apologises for their pain and suffering, but not for actually shooting her. Again, he is not taking responsibility.
[MENTION=3969]Billy the Fish[/MENTION] - we can see clearer now why they were going on about what was an accident. It is another example of Oscar not taking responsibility. He was holding the gun but firing it 4 times was an accident. They will come back to this I am sure later on, as it is crucial.