Seagull58
In the Algarve
I wasnt looking to validate you statement so dont get the arse if you cant have a debate properly.
Quite clearly something has 'gone wrong' with her life between her taking on your property and now. The council are obviously right not to tell you about her claim. She probably should have told you that she was going to claim housing benefit as you would be affected. Obviously she didnt but there could be many reasons why she didnt do this, as with why she wont discuss it with you. As you are owed money I can understand why you would rather the benefit be paid to you and not to her.
I didnt get the arse at all. Simply laid out the sketchy information I have managed to glean, which cannot really be called knowledge and aksed whether that was sufficient to validate my statement that I have no lnowledge of her situation. I realise it's difficult to accurately read emotion from a post but I can assure you I was not wound up. If I had said "Is that enough ****ing information to validate my statement, you ****" I would have been getting the arse.
You state that the council is obviously right not to tell me about her claim. Why is that so? If I have been informed that she is receiving housing benefit to pay the rent but the rent is not being paid why should the council not tell me the status of the housing benefit?