Adam Virgo's Shirt
I took Adam's shirt off!
Mate - I'm sorry both of these things have come up at the same time! Life is crap sometimes!
IMO, however hard it might be, you should sort the job thing out first and worry about her later!
By focussing on that right now it will also help with the gf situation too. If you put your energy into work, you won't be bombarding her with how you feel about her, and will give her the impression (albeit falsely) that you have accepted her decision and moved on.
In my experience, nothing will make you attractive to her again more than her thinking you don't care!
IMO, however hard it might be, you should sort the job thing out first and worry about her later!
By focussing on that right now it will also help with the gf situation too. If you put your energy into work, you won't be bombarding her with how you feel about her, and will give her the impression (albeit falsely) that you have accepted her decision and moved on.
In my experience, nothing will make you attractive to her again more than her thinking you don't care!