Sure he might be dead to you, you don't need to send him a christmas card, but IF palace were to offer him £150k more than anyone else, it would be pretty difficult for him to turn it down. You have kids, imagine trying to explain it to your wife:If he joins the enemy he's dead to me. My kids have got his picture on their wall ffs - if he played for
anyone but them, then fair enough, but not them - end of
'honey, I've been offered an extra £150k to play up the rpad, but the fans wouldn't like it'
'we could use that money for our future, put the kids through good schools, get a pension - what if you get a career ending injury in a year, will the Brighton fans support us for the next 50 years? You're going, that's all there is to it'.