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Moral Dilemma............

Is it better to regret doing something, rather than not doing it?

  • Yes, its better to regret doing it

    Votes: 18 51.4%
  • No, it's better to regret not doing it

    Votes: 8 22.9%
  • Pervert

    Votes: 9 25.7%

  • Total voters
    35






Man of Harveys said:
But the truth is that the wife won't always find out? Unless you're stupid or like flirting with danger, it shouldn't be difficult. The "do quite the right thing" kneejerk response seems to presuppose that you'll automatically get caught and lose house/kids/stereo (in ascending order of importance) within a week. For the sake of shagging some young lady, possibly for the last time in your life? In some cases it's a risk worth taking.

Well that depends on the wife too. Lets be honest if you're 100% happy in your relationship then you wouldn't even consider it for more than a couple of weeks, I mean minutes, so it wouldn't be much of an issue anyway. Also if you already have fantastic sex then you're just being greedy.
 


Starry

Captain Of The Crew
Oct 10, 2004
6,733
Man of Harveys said:
But the truth is that the wife won't always find out? Unless you're stupid or like flirting with danger, it shouldn't be difficult. The "do quite the right thing" kneejerk response seems to presuppose that you'll automatically get caught and lose house/kids/stereo (in ascending order of importance) within a week. For the sake of shagging some young lady, possibly for the last time in your life? In some cases it's a risk worth taking.

So if your wife doesn't find out it's OK? Nice set of morals. Luckily my marriage is built on respect and trust and I know that my hubby would never go elsewhere.

I fail to see how doing the ultimate dirty behind your wife's back can ever be a risk worth taking, but I guess people have loser morals and less respect for themselves.
 
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Can't help thinking that great tits are a bit of a con. I mean, I love tits. Love em. They look FANTASTIC. I could stare at a good pair all day without getting bored as long as they are at least partially dressed (naked they always look a bit, well, naked). However, get them home and unwrap them and somehow they are always a disappointment. Sure there is the initial Merry Christmas Jimbo! feeling. But then what? What do you do with them that can provide you with the same level of excitement as eyeing them up and thinking naughty thoughts? I soon get bored of em and move on to more interesting pastures. I think we have been badly programmed somewhere along the way. Or am I just missing something important here? Any NSC tit tickling tricks anyone can share so that my life can finally be fulfilled?
 


Meade's Ball

Well-known member
Jul 7, 2003
13,653
Hither (sometimes Thither)
Lokki 7 said:
I found myself in a situation last week alone in a flat with a pretty girl who asked me if I wanted sex. No one would ever have found out as I have no connection with her (don't ask how I ended up there in the first place but it was innocent, honest guv). I'm married of 6 years by the way. I said no, made my excuses and left, as they say in the News of the World. And I feel bloody good about myself to be honest. So, in your "friends" case I'd say leave it well alone, very little upside and a whole world of shit if it blows up.

Just go to the bog for moments and wank on the nearest towel. No more answers to be given.
 




Man of Harveys

Well-known member
Jul 9, 2003
18,895
Brighton, UK
Starry said:
So if your wife doesn't find out it's OK? Nice set of morals. Luckily my marriage is built on respect and trust and I know that my hubby would never go elsewhere.
Nooo, course not, they never do :lolol:
 


Starry

Captain Of The Crew
Oct 10, 2004
6,733
I know my husband wouldn't, lord knows he has plenty of opportunity, but he has too much respect for me and his kids. He made a commitment to me and if he is one thing he's a man of his word. Plus, I'm f***ing fabulous, why would he want to go elsewhere ;)

It's the weak, selfish, small dicked men who go to bed with others.
 


bhaexpress

New member
Jul 7, 2003
27,627
Kent
Thing is it really depends whether you could live with the guilt and if you could get found out. Something like that would very likely blow up in your colleagues face. I find it hard to understand why a good looking woman would fall for a man twice her age. She has to have an agenda.
 




See-Goals

DIIIIIIIIIIIIIVE
Aug 13, 2004
1,172
Seaford
The wife finding out about it is just the half of it.

Its living with the unbearable guilt of what you did and that your wife is completely in the dark.

Thats from experience in my younger days mind with a girlfriend, I'm married now to the most amazing woman. But there is never any harm in utilising that inbuilt male tool - the roving eye :glare:
 


Starry said:
I know my husband wouldn't, lord knows he has plenty of opportunity, but he has too much respect for me and his kids. He made a commitment to me and if he is one thing he's a man of his word. Plus, I'm f***ing fabulous, why would he want to go elsewhere ;)

It's the weak, selfish, small dicked men who go to bed with others.

Starry said:
Sup a few beers and move on to Munich as already planned. Do the same if it happens in Munich and stumble on to Berlin.

No skin off my nose, certainly haven't been spending my money to watch that drivel but on good beer, good company and the brothels.

Paddy

:lolol:
 


El Presidente

The ONLY Gay in Brighton
Helpful Moderator
Jul 5, 2003
40,018
Pattknull med Haksprut
Lokki 7 said:

Errr.......I guess what Paddy is trying to say is that shagging a whore is far more acceptable than having an affair, and so proves he still respects Starry.........ish
 






Barrel of Fun

Abort, retry, fail
My biggest regret...

On my gap year I got chatting to a very attractive Norwegian girl in Australia (On national Norwegian day). I had arranged to meet up with a group of the, for drinks at about 9pm the following evening. She told me to come and pick her up at 6pm and we could 'entertain ourselves'. She scribbled down her hotel and room number on a bit of tissue paper and handed it to me. There was a lipstick kiss mark on it! :love:

Anyway, I got rather drunk later on that evening and managed to lose the details and never found her again..... :down: Mortified!


Anyway back to the point - Not worth risking a marriage unless an unhappy one that is in terminal decline.
 


El Presidente

The ONLY Gay in Brighton
Helpful Moderator
Jul 5, 2003
40,018
Pattknull med Haksprut
Starry said:
His dinner is in the dog already ;)

........and his genitals will be following as soon as he gets homes after you have a word with him with that rusty knife no doubt:jester:
 






Man of Harveys

Well-known member
Jul 9, 2003
18,895
Brighton, UK
Lokki 7 said:
:lolol: Did you happen to espy Paddy in action in one of Germany's many whorehouses during the world cup? They call them "poufs", oddly.
 


Starry

Captain Of The Crew
Oct 10, 2004
6,733
El Presidente said:
........and his genitals will be following as soon as he gets homes after you have a word with him with that rusty knife no doubt:jester:

Heh.

He was with my dad and if he had really been castrated him long before I had chance!
 


Man of Harveys said:
:lolol: Did you happen to espy Paddy in action in one of Germany's many whorehouses during the world cup? They call them "poufs", oddly.

Are you suggesting that I would frequent such a filthy Leeds ridden establishment Mr Harveys? How very dare you!
 




Dave the OAP

Well-known member
Jul 5, 2003
46,762
at home
Lokki 7 said:
I found myself in a situation last week alone in a flat with a pretty girl who asked me if I wanted sex. No one would ever have found out as I have no connection with her (don't ask how I ended up there in the first place but it was innocent, honest guv). I'm married of 6 years by the way. I said no, made my excuses and left, as they say in the News of the World. And I feel bloody good about myself to be honest. So, in your "friends" case I'd say leave it well alone, very little upside and a whole world of shit if it blows up.


top man Jim

Top man

:bowdown: :bowdown: :bowdown: :bowdown:
 


Dave the OAP

Well-known member
Jul 5, 2003
46,762
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an old friend said once that it doesn't matter how big the breasts are, they are all the same size laying down!

What that adds to this topic I do not know, but has been brought to you by the makers of Shredded Wheat and Coca Cola.
 


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