[Humour] Middle aged absent-mindedness

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Jackthelad

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Mar 31, 2010
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I don't just mean COVID as a disease, but everything that has rippled out because of COVID.
That's a different thread but what rippled out was far worse than the actual disease imo, And It's by and large been brushed under the carpet. But the implications of an explosion of mental health issues, addictions, suicides, the effect of NHS and cancer waiting lists, negative culture changes, what it did to a whole generation of children and the elderly can't be calculated.
 






Jack Straw

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Jul 7, 2003
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I went to the Prince Regent Swimming Complex recently, found a nice locker and put my bag in it. I locked it and put the key- wristband thingy on and made my way to the pool. As I stood on the side of the pool, about to jump in, I realised I still had all my clothes on! Absolutely true.
 




SeagullinExile

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Sep 10, 2010
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I sometimes get mental blocks on certain words. I know what I want to say but have forgotten the actual word itself. Wordle has been a great help with that, it seems to have unlocked my vocabulary files again. Which means I'll be forgetting something else at some point.

I honestly think the brain is a bit like a hard drive and at some point it has to delete stuff to fit other things in it.
The human body is basically a biological computer tbf. The brain is most certainly the hard drive.
 






Giraffe

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Were they on your head?
No for once when I lost them I wasn't actually still wearing them. Dropped out of my pocket, didn't notice for an hour and then panic set in briefly that they'd disappeared into the in between seats black hole. But fortunately Sam quickly leapt down on to all fours and found them. It was quite impressive. Pretty sure that he commented he was used to caring for his dad... 😃
 
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Algernon

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Sep 9, 2012
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I sometimes get mental blocks on certain words. I know what I want to say but have forgotten the actual word itself. Wordle has been a great help with that, it seems to have unlocked my vocabulary files again. Which means I'll be forgetting something else at some point.

I honestly think the brain is a bit like a hard drive and at some point it has to delete stuff to fit other things in it.
I have the same with words. And no matter how hard I try to think of them in the moment they won't make themselves known to me.

A colleague said to me a while ago that when your brain is full, if you cram something in one ear, a correspondingly sized bit of data falls out of the other. That's how I see it.
59 in September. Where has that time gone.
 




AlbionBro

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Jun 6, 2020
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That's a different thread but what rippled out was far worse than the actual disease imo, And It's by and large been brushed under the carpet. But the implications of an explosion of mental health issues, addictions, suicides, the effect of NHS and cancer waiting lists, negative culture changes, what it did to a whole generation of children and the elderly can't be calculated.
I just don't know that it would be possible for any nation to have fully dealt with this tsunami of COVID destruction. Time will heal some, but I think scars will always be there unfortunately.
 


nwgull

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Jul 25, 2003
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I sometimes get mental blocks on certain words. I know what I want to say but have forgotten the actual word itself. Wordle has been a great help with that, it seems to have unlocked my vocabulary files again. Which means I'll be forgetting something else at some point.

I honestly think the brain is a bit like a hard drive and at some point it has to delete stuff to fit other things in it.
Ooh, I get this. It's really annoying when you're writing a report or a work email and you know that there's a word to describe just what you want to say but can't remember it. I'm also really shit at names - although I've never been great. I put it down to brain fog caused by young children and not getting sufficient sleep over a long period with no stress-free holiday time either.

I can however remember the date and time of most events if I can use a sporting occasion, particularly a BHA game, as a hook.
 


Si Gull

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I noticed an appreciable deterioration in my memory after 2 nasty bouts of Covid. Also an increase in brain fog which often left me unable to think clearly in a way that I hadn't up until then experienced. My perception is that the fog symptom is lessening, but I am aware that it may simply be a case that I've adjusted accordingly and my expectations have changed.
Definite brain fog here, that I didn't have before two bouts of Covid. I now find some more complex mental tasks, that I would have enjoyed the challenge of before, quite daunting e g. financial stuff, organising holidays, etc. I don't believe that's happened just because I've aged another 18 months.
 




chip

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Jul 7, 2003
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I went to a gig at the Concorde a while back and visited my mother on the way there. She asked me why I was wearing odd trainers. I like fiddling with my old motorbikes and seem to spend more time trying to find the tool that was in my hand 5 seconds ago. On the plus side, nothing seems to make me angry anymore.
 


thedonkeycentrehalf

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Jul 7, 2003
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For work I write down notes about meetings etc. I find that by writing it down it seems to stick in my memory better (and also means less chance of being distracted by something else - for example, reading NSC while joining meetings from home).

The advantage is that now if that if I forget, I should have the notes. The downside is that my handwriting is so bad these days I can hardly read what I wrote down.
 


dsr-burnley

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Aug 15, 2014
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I went to the Prince Regent Swimming Complex recently, found a nice locker and put my bag in it. I locked it and put the key- wristband thingy on and made my way to the pool. As I stood on the side of the pool, about to jump in, I realised I still had all my clothes on! Absolutely true.
Had you had the recommended shower before getting to the poolside? :unsure:
 




dsr-burnley

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Aug 15, 2014
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I went to a formal dinner and it was pointed out to me that my slippers didn’t really go with the suit as I stood for a pre dinner drink
If you think quick enough, the answer is that you have a swollen toe and you decided matching slippers were better than one slipper and one shoe.

(Or as an alternative, get plain black slippers instead of those pink fluffy ones with bunny ears!)
 


Zeberdi

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I think both of these are very common, I think many people are suffering from PTSD. But I doubt it would be viable to council probably 25% of the country. Exercise and time talking about it on forums like this may help. I am know expert, but I have certainly seen a change with my memory since COVID.
I think neurological and psychological deficits from Covid are more common than people realise.

I managed 3 years of social isolation and not seeing any friends and family at all throughout ( because I was clinically vulnerable but also they were all in Brighton or London and I couldn’t travel) - that was ok - I learned to use video conferencing platforms, WhatsApp and worked from home - I even bought an exercise bike) -

Everything was fine until March 23 and I got Covid - I’ve been under the NHS Long Covid Clinic since last June - referred for a long list of symptoms that are still getting worse - also under PTSD clinic from being repeatedly hospitalised for months and months from post-Covid complications and critically ill on several occasions with several of those hospital stays in complete isolation. Just getting Covid once devastated my health tbh - left me with severe mobility issues, unable to work most days and ongoing organ damage. Before Covid, I was cycling to and from work, travelling and socialising regularly with friends and family, going swimming regularly and hill walking/hiking, enjoying going to football and gardening- now I struggle to get up stairs.

The worst impact for me, has been neurological- Long Covid has worsened existing autoimmune conditions that were already effecting my mobility and exacerbated what were high functioning autistic symptoms ( now quite debilitating) and left me with constant migraines and severe brain fog on an already brain fogged mind from the fatigue of various autoimmune conditions.

I have now been referred to a neurologist because the Long Covid Clinic say it is likely Long Covid has resulted in brain deficits effecting cognitive and physiological functions including loss of motor skills/vision/language/communication/short-term memory etc I am also waiting for a re-assessment for autism because I am less ‘high functioning’ than I was and a referral to a ‘smell clinic’ because I still don’t have a sense of smell much of the time..

So while it is quite amusing to hear of all these episodes of us doing daft things ( and it really is - I have done forgetful or muddled things for years 🙂) there is a serious side in losing cognition too even if it is momentary lapses, it can be scary.

If as GB said above, the brain is like a computer, mine most definitely downloaded a virus.
 


KZNSeagull

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Nov 26, 2007
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I read or heard something the other day that made me 15% less likely to get dementia but of course I cannot remember what it was! My other main brain fart is opening a new browser tab to do something and then immediately forgetting what it was I wanted to do.
My wife was having quite bad brain fogs we think mainly due to menopause but has started a new job working at a deli and since then she has been a lot better. She hates the job but she is extremely busy when she is doing it so maybe that is the key. Certainly I don't have any serious memory issues and I too have a pretty menial job but again I am always busy when doing it.
She is nearly 60, I am 58 in July.
 


Green Cross Code Man

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Mar 30, 2006
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I think neurological and psychological deficits from Covid are more common than people realise.

I managed 3 years of social isolation and not seeing any friends and family at all throughout ( because I was clinically vulnerable but also they were all in Brighton or London and I couldn’t travel) - that was ok - I learned to use video conferencing platforms, WhatsApp and worked from home - I even bought an exercise bike) -

Everything was fine until March 23 and I got Covid - I’ve been under the NHS Long Covid Clinic since last June - referred for a long list of symptoms that are still getting worse - also under PTSD clinic from being repeatedly hospitalised for months and months from post-Covid complications and critically ill on several occasions with several of those hospital stays in complete isolation. Just getting Covid once devastated my health tbh - left me with severe mobility issues, unable to work most days and ongoing organ damage. Before Covid, I was cycling to and from work, travelling and socialising regularly with friends and family, going swimming regularly and hill walking/hiking, enjoying going to football and gardening- now I struggle to get up stairs.

The worst impact for me, has been neurological- Long Covid has worsened existing autoimmune conditions that were already effecting my mobility and exacerbated what were high functioning autistic symptoms ( now quite debilitating) and left me with constant migraines and severe brain fog on an already brain fogged mind from the fatigue of various autoimmune conditions.

I have now been referred to a neurologist because the Long Covid Clinic say it is likely Long Covid has resulted in brain deficits effecting cognitive and physiological functions including loss of motor skills/vision/language/communication/short-term memory etc I am also waiting for a re-assessment for autism because I am less ‘high functioning’ than I was and a referral to a ‘smell clinic’ because I still don’t have a sense of smell much of the time..

So while it is quite amusing to hear of all these episodes of us doing daft things ( and it really is - I have done forgetful or muddled things for years 🙂) there is a serious side in losing cognition too even if it is momentary lapses, it can be scary.

If as GB said above, the brain is like a computer, mine most definitely downloaded a virus.
That's hard to read mate. I have a good friend who is also a BHA fan who has autoimmune problems so I know how difficult that is to live with. I wish you all the best in a very difficult situation.
 






Zeberdi

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That's hard to read mate. I have a good friend who is also a BHA fan who has autoimmune problems so I know how difficult that is to live with. I wish you all the best in a very difficult situation.
Sorry it wasn’t meant to be - but thanks (and I’ll be bollocked for yet another long post by the word-length police I’m sure 😎) ) - I just meant that reading through this thread, some folk seem genuinely worried that absent mindedness might be a sign of something more than just middle age - and sometimes it is but you have to retain the ability to laugh at yourself or what’s the point 🙂🙂
 


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