i'm happy to wear a pink shirt with dark blue suit, have also done a deal with the mrs - she's having some really aggressive treatment for her ms which is 90% certain gonna make her hair fall out so if/when it does i'm gonna have my hair dyed fluorescent pink (so when we're out and she's in the wheelchair people will be too busy looking at a 6ft tall big bloke with bright pink hair to notice my mrs with no hair - i'd rather other people looking/staring at me than at my mrs with "that look"on their face)