bhaexpress
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Gully said:Try Canada instead, it is part of the Commonwealth, they love the British and drink tea.
Be a bit difficult as Mr C's fiancee is an American, it's as hard to move to Canada as it is the US anyway.
Gully said:Try Canada instead, it is part of the Commonwealth, they love the British and drink tea.
Soton Seagull said:Reedy, your intended voted for George Bush. Ask yourself, is this woman sane of mind?
Mr C said:She has her reasons and I am sure she'll be only too happy to discuss it with you when she comes over
Mr C said:Yes, she is. We have quite interesting discussions on the existence or otherwise of God
It isn't a problem getting into the discussions because she's knows my point of view and I know hers. It works.bhaexpress said:Steady now, they take it very seriously although I thought Catholics (I was brought up as one) were hypocrits until I met some Southern Baptists. I had a girlfriend from Oklahoma who was a serial God botherer, she was also the biggest slut I have ever met ! True double standards believe me.
It's really not a great idea to get into a theological arguement with your intended and I would suggest that giving up an hour or so each week to go to church with her is a good investment.
Mr C said:It isn't a problem getting into the discussions because she's knows my point of view and I know hers. It works.
And i have been to church with her. She asked if i would attend with her - she knows I'm not about to be converted, and I told her my thoughts from a non-religious point of view.
She's quite open about it.
The church service i attended with her was quite normal! It reminded me of services as a kid.bhaexpress said:I have a born again Christian cousin in Canada and whilst I'm an agnostic (Catholitism has that effect on you) I do respect her beliefs. She is genuine which is more than I can say for so many God fearing types I've encountered over the years.
Mind you I also attended the Oklahoma Slut's church where they had one of the jump up and down, jabber 'Praise the Lord' and shout Halleluiah ! merchants, a sick joke if you ask me. That did a pretty good job of putting me of Jesus as well.
Glad that you're lucky enough to have a partner that can see your point of view, she sounds pretty good.