liam82
Onwards and Upwards
CHOOSING to drink and drive is not a MISTAKE, 2 young lads paid the ultimate price for this selfish idiotic act. 4 years inside for that is a shameful joke.
CHOOSING to drink and drive is not a MISTAKE, 2 young lads paid the ultimate price for this selfish idiotic act. 4 years inside for that is a shameful joke.
Yes, obviously it is. But that's happened now, and you either have to deal with it and move on with your life, or get stuck banging that drum forever and not live life at all. It's a tragic loss for the family, anyone who has lost a kid will feel their pain. I'm lucky, I haven't. But if I ever did, I wouldn't want to still be carrying hatred a decade on.
Also, the outpouring of emotion on behalf of the people who actually suffered feels fake and irrelevant.
I assume you have never done anything stupid when drunk then ? Drinking alcohol excessively causes you to make stupid mistakes.
The poor family loose
Driving when drunk goes beyond a drunken mishap.
No, it doesnt. When your sober, you would never dream of drink-driving as the thought of it is enough to put you off. But when you've had a few drinks, you dont think about that and you think you will be ok, that is when issues start and it is the stupidest mistake of LM's life. It is a drunken mistake, whether you want to accept that or not. He didnt intend to drink-drive, nor kill 2 children in a crash.
No, it doesnt. When your sober, you would never dream of drink-driving as the thought of it is enough to put you off. But when you've had a few drinks, you dont think about that and you think you will be ok, that is when issues start and it is the stupidest mistake of LM's life. It is a drunken mistake, whether you want to accept that or not. He didnt intend to drink-drive, nor kill 2 children in a crash.
Did he run away after the crash or was that someone else ?
Im split over this.
Yes he made a terrible mistake and through his own stupidity, he killed 2 innocent children. But he also pleaded guilty, served his time and has rebuilt his life. No doubt he nearly ruined his own life as well.
Cant decide whether its a good or bad thing myself. Just because someone committed a crime, it doesnt mean their entire lives should be over - controversial and i know I will get some stick/thumbs down-ed for saying it. If Plymouth want to do it, then on their head be it.
Which is the side im slightly coming down on. By all means sign him, but im unsure about being captain, especially so soon after re-signing.
He made a stupid mistake, like most humans will do in their lives - albeit not as severe. He paid the price and it will no doubt haunt him for the rest of his life as it is.
The issue doesn't start when you've already had a few. It starts when you arrive at a bar, or in this case a wedding, by car and think "I'll have a drink. Now I'll down some sambucas" without thinking 'I drove here, how will I get home if I've had a few?'.
Of course, there's the added issue in this case of him ignoring friends telling him not to drive, and having a couple of near misses that he didn't think "hang on, maybe I should stop".
Typical of the normal lynch mob mentality of most of those on here. He made a mistake, a catastrophic one for those two boys and their families but as has been said, it was a drunken mistake. He was at a wedding and was due to stay so Acker's comments aren't accurate. By all accounts, he had a row with his partner who wasn't at the wedding and then made the mistake of thinking he could drive home and sort out the problem. Nothing he can do for the rest of his life will bring those two boys back but what none of us on here know is what he does to make amends as best he can. He never tried to run and admitted responsibility, unlike Lee Hughes. He served the sentence given him and would probably have served longer if the courts decided.
Not fake in this household, the story has angered me.
I'm glad that you are able to forgive and forget, you are obviously a very level headed and sensible person. I'm pleased for you.
Maybe some people on here have lost loved ones or friends because of a drunk driver, I can understand if that's the reason some are upset.
I don't consider myself part of the lynch mob. I don't know how I feel about the balance between being given a second chance and a sense of 'proper' justice (whatever that means).
But excusing drink driving as 'well, he was drunk he didn't know better' is wrong, imo. There is a moment with all drink drivers when they are sober and make a choice, either the decision to start drinking, or to drive to wherever they are going. Being drunk doesn't and shouldn't absolve you of any action you take.
In this case he was at a wedding, had a couple of hours sleep, so the idea that it was just the alcohol doesn't hold water. He had two hours sleep and should have been sober enough to make a better judgement. Even if he wasn't at that point, he then ignored please from friends to pull over at service stations and stop driving. He also ignored the warning signs of other near accidents.
At 0.073 his judgement shouldn't have been impaired enough that the knowledge you've had two hours sleep after downing beers and sambucas, and have friends telling you not to drive while also have near misses you don't actually stop.
I'm not saying he needs to be strung up, or never be allowed to do anything that gives him some sort of happiness, but he does have to own the decision to drink and drive, and people shouldn't be absolving him of it.