[News] Lucky 13-y-o boy described as 'victim'

[Nottseagull]

http://www.ladbible.com/news/news-p...e-teacher-had-sex-with-teen-20181218.amp.html
No doubt I will get hammered for this because he wasn't psychologically mature enough or other such crap. Well, he couldn't have been more damaged than I was at that age, already stuck in an all-boys boarding school for 2 years with no contact at all, social or otherwise, with girls.

 

[aolstudios]

http://www.ladbible.com/news/news-p...e-teacher-had-sex-with-teen-20181218.amp.html
No doubt I will get hammered for this because he wasn't psychologically mature enough or other such crap. Well, he couldn't have been more damaged than I was at that age, already stuck in an all-boys boarding school for 2 years with no social contact at all with girls.

That's rape.
Exactly what you'd call it if it was your daughter

 

[Insel affe]

http://www.ladbible.com/news/news-p...e-teacher-had-sex-with-teen-20181218.amp.html
No doubt I will get hammered for this because he wasn't psychologically mature enough or other such crap. Well, he couldn't have been more damaged than I was at that age, already stuck in an all-boys boarding school for 2 years with no social contact at all with girls.

Zamora scores again....

 

[Paul Reids Sock]

Christ that level of 'reporting' was bloody atrocious.

In addition - yep 100% rape. If the other way around then people would be screaming for the death penalty. Instead this guy is 'lucky'

 

[Pavilionaire]

He may be a victim to the outside world but he's a legend to his mates.

 

[Nottseagull]

It's not rape when the boy went back for more and more and more. In fact I don't think there is any such crime in common law when it's the female who's the adult.

 

[seagully]

The problem for me is that most teenage boys will be physically ready (and up for) a sexual relationship like that, but mentally they may well not be developed enough to cope with it, especially in later years.

 

[Pavilionaire]

At 13 I had a thing for my maths teacher, I'd have been right up for it if she'd have offered.

 

[sussex_guy2k2]

That's rape.
Exactly what you'd call it if it was your daughter

It isn't rape in the UK.

Although I agree with your sentiment in that it's horrific that anyone would glorify touching a child, let alone sleeping with one irrespective of whether that child is male or female.

 

[sussex_guy2k2]

It's not rape when the boy went back for more and more and more. In fact I don't think there is any such crime in common law when it's the female who's the adult.

Yes there is. The kid is 13 or under. It's an offence liable for up to 14 years imprisonment, irrespective of the gender of the child.

 

[Knocky's Nose]

At 13 I had a thing for my maths teacher, I'd have been right up for it if she'd have offered.

I'd have smashed the granny out of my English teacher given half a chance - and I'm not sure it'd have had any effect on me apart from terrible face ache where I'd been smiling so much...

However, the law is the law. He was under-age. It's a criminal act.

Lucky little bugger.....

 

[nickbrighton]

What would the response of NSC be if this was a 13 yr old girl and a 27 year old male teacher? I suspect very much on the "it's rape and string him up" rather than "technically its a crime, but lucky guy" that some have posted.

 

[Knocky's Nose]

What would the response of NSC be if this was a 13 yr old girl and a 27 year old male teacher? I suspect very much on the "it's rape and string him up" rather than "technically its a crime, but lucky guy" that some have posted.

Because males are seen as the 'natural predators'. Males have things they can physically put in females wether the female likes it or not. A female, however, has to get a male aroused (of his own free will) in order to have intercourse. The boy was a willing participant, who wanted more - not to be left alone...

That's all a bit 'icky' in the description, but that's the normal male mindset - and one that bleeds into cases like this when you ask for a reaction. Once you give it some real thought, you then realise it's wrong - both from a legal and also moral perspective.

The moral perspective thing is only from recent times though..... A 27 year old man marrying a 13 year old girl was completely socially acceptable only a few hundred years ago. In fact, it was only in 1929 that the legal age of marriage (with parental consent) was raised from 14 for a boy and 12 for a girl to 16 for both sexes.

Anyway... this could rumble on and on, but it doesn't affect the fact that what she did was illegal.

 

[GT49er]

Yes there is. The kid is 13 or under. It's an offence liable for up to 14 years imprisonment, irrespective of the gender of the child.

Also teachers aren't allowed to have sex with their pupils - even those over the legal age of consent. I'm not sure if that is a crime in law, but it's an automatic sacking and disqualification offence, I believe.

 

[Pavilionaire]

Zamora scores again....

"When you're shooting your jet
You've become teacher's pet
Of Zamora!
When she wants a quickie
After assember-ly
It's Zamora!"

 

[Wilko]

I am always interested in the language in these cases, if it were a male he would be called a 'Paedophile' and that he 'preyed upon' and 'groomed' a 'vulnerable' victim. Other way around and none of these words are used. Why not? She is a sick peado.

 

[Da Man Clay]

Ignore: can’t read!

 

[Pogue Mahone]

It's not rape when the boy went back for more and more and more. In fact I don't think there is any such crime in common law when it's the female who's the adult.

Do you remember this case from a few years back? The girl also went back 'for more and more'.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/06/01/girl-fled-france-teacher-says-has-no-regrets/

Did you think she was lucky too?

Who knows how this will affect this kid psychologically in the years to come? This is rape, even if the boy thought that he wanted it. It disgusts me that a grown woman would contemplate such an action, and that grown men would consider this to be in any way acceptable.

 

[blue-shifted]

Do you remember this case from a few years back? The girl also went back 'for more and more'.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/06/01/girl-fled-france-teacher-says-has-no-regrets/

Did you think she was lucky too?

Who knows how this will affect this kid psychologically in the years to come? This is rape, even if the boy thought that he wanted it. It disgusts me that a grown woman would contemplate such an action, and that grown men would consider this to be in any way acceptable.

Logically, I know you're right, of course you're absolutely right. But part of me (no prizes for guessing which part) seriously wishes i'd got to act on my teenager teacher crush and I can't imagine that i'd have in any way suffered mentally (Probably the opposite, the self esteem boost would have made my teenage and early adult years loads better). Of course, i'm not the same as everyone and other boys may suffer mentally if this has happened, so I don't think the law has got it wrong.

 

[Stat Brother]

My biology teacher had massive boobs.