It may be obnoxious, but considering even you didn't know Rohan Ince had lost his father, you know it's true.
That's not the issue I'm taking up with you. It's your comment that the better player you are makes you more sensitive you are to the death of your father. If you're trying to do irony....... you're crap at it.
The more well known you are the more likely the death of your father will be reported.