And you’ve explained the nickname was because she likes carrots so it is not one bit racist - here is where a big part of the problem lies for me - everyone’s looking for racism that ISNT THERE! She obviously wants it so no drama to see here.
Exactly - and besides, 'Bunny' was a common nick-name long before various words for people of colour were (quite rightly) outlawed. Back in the day (and especially in the forces) people named Smith were 'Smudger' (never quite worked out the derivation of that one), people called Miller were 'Dusty', people named White were nicknamed 'Chalky' and Underwoods (including my late Godfather) were always 'Bunny' (bunnies - live under the wood, geddit?)