Thanks for that. If you knew me, as many on here do, you'd know I'm not some wild eyed fantasist. The things I experienced happened exactly as I describe. Just because you weren't involved does not make me a liar.
FFS.
I think the personal insults were uncalled for, but rest assured there is nothing "supernatural" going on. Every investigation has shown either deception by the "spiritualist" or a misunderstanding/over-eagerness to believe by the subject.
Sorry if you thought I was insulting but I did not appreciate being told I did not know what I was talking about. I have taught psychology for over 13 years and so I felt I did have some knowledge on the subject.
What these incidents do show us is the power of the human mind. It is interesting for example how many people believe they have seen a loved one within a few days of losing them, thinking rationally that person has not slept, emotions are all over the place, their mind has thought of nothing but that person and the chances of hallucination are very high. I totally agree that many people are convinced they have seen something but logically it shows the power of the troubled or fearful mind.