Is anyone here the other man/woman

[robbied69]

Anyone having an affair on here where you are the one doing the cheating?

May sound a little brutal, but do you enjoy it?

 

[Da Man Clay]

Nope, been seeing someone who is cheating on her b/f with me.

 

[Les Biehn]

I can't get any action for love nor money at the moment. My balls are the size of melons. So no.

However I have in the past and although it is a shitty thing to do it was very exciting. Plus I found out my bird at the time was getting it on with her ex girlfriend behind my back. So the guilt was gone and I got a couple of threesomes out of it.

 

[robbied69]

I can't get any action for love nor money at the moment. My balls are the size of melons. So no.

However I have in the past and although it is a shitty thing to do it was very exciting. Plus I found out my bird at the time was getting it on with her ex girlfriend behind my back. So the guilt was gone and I got a couple of threesomes out of it.

lol, I know what your saying. I've only done it once before, but now its me getting chased. I am quite enjoying which I know is a bad thing. But when she turns up on my doorstep its pretty difficult to say no. The worst thing is that she knows I'm enjoying it.

 

[rospants]

having been cheated on myself, i would never cheat on someone. It causes the worse feeling ever

 

[SK1NT]

cheating horrible. luckily iv never had the being cheated on feeling, i but i have suspected it and that drove me mad as it was. If you have the desire to be with somelse, you should leave the person your with.

 

[Da Man Clay]

having been cheated on myself, i would never cheat on someone. It causes the worse feeling ever

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[Les Biehn]

Its not as simple as that, relationships are complicated. I've been cheated on and it was shit as. I've also been the other man twice to girls I genuinely cared about whose boyfriends were cocks (one smacked her about the other was a drug dealer). But I have cheated on a couple of girls because either things were going shit or the relationship wasn't working. I went with other girls because I was depressed at the state of my relationship. I'm not saying that that is an excuse for doing it but that it is not usually that clear cut. Although some people are just arseholes who like to f*** others over.

 

[Napper]

I am in a relationship which is the best ever , I am completely happy with every part of it. However I still have the occasional one night stand after a shed load of alcohol. I only do this if I am in a complete situation that this would never come back or hurt anyone and I don't get a conscious about it as I think it helps my relationship . She's obviously be devastated but will never find out . Im am gonna stick with her too so in the long run she also wont get hurt.
How would I feel if she did it to me : well If I didn't find out then whats to be concerned about

 

[Trufflehound]

I found out my bird at the time was getting it on with her ex girlfriend.

And you didn't ask if you could watch?

 

[Dave the OAP]

I am in a relationship which is the best ever , I am completely happy with every part of it. However I still have the occasional one night stand after a shed load of alcohol.

I was about to launch into a moral argument going something on the lines of.....how can it be the best ever relationship if you feel you have to find sex elsewhere whilst drunk.....then I thought each to his or her own I suppose......

PS I have been married 24 years next year

 

[Mr C]

I am in a relationship which is the best ever , I am completely happy with every part of it. However I still have the occasional one night stand after a shed load of alcohol. I only do this if I am in a complete situation that this would never come back or hurt anyone and I don't get a conscious about it as I think it helps my relationship . She's obviously be devastated but will never find out . Im am gonna stick with her too so in the long run she also wont get hurt.
How would I feel if she did it to me : well If I didn't find out then whats to be concerned about

How about because it's dishonest and shows a fundamental flaw?

 

[Les Biehn]

And you didn't ask if you could watch?

If you refer back to my earlier posting you will see that I got a couple of threesomes out of it. And pretty f***ing amazing they were to.

 

[rospants]

I am in a relationship which is the best ever , I am completely happy with every part of it. However I still have the occasional one night stand after a shed load of alcohol. I only do this if I am in a complete situation that this would never come back or hurt anyone and I don't get a conscious about it as I think it helps my relationship . She's obviously be devastated but will never find out . Im am gonna stick with her too so in the long run she also wont get hurt.
How would I feel if she did it to me : well If I didn't find out then whats to be concerned about

how would you feel though if your girlfriend went and shagged someone else everytime she had a few too many?

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

If you have an affair think very very carefully about it, relationships are the most complicated and explosives things going, you might get anyway with it, it might ruin your life forever, light the fuse and stand back as there is very very rarely " no strings sex " as women change once a man has had sex with them and vice versa I suppose. If other people are involved you could end up with your head shot off.

If you want no strings sex go to a prostitute.

 

[Dave the OAP]

how would you feel though if your girlfriend went and shagged someone else everytime she had a few too many?

give that lady 24 red roses




nail head bang on

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

I am no angel but having one night stands when pissed is one hell of a dangerous game to play.

 

[Les Biehn]

If you have an affair think very very carefully about it, relationships are the most complicated and explosives things going, you might get anyway with it, it might ruin your life forever, light the fuse and stand back as there is very very rarely " no strings sex " as women change once a man has had sex with them and vice versa I suppose. If other people are involved you could end up with your head shot off.

If you want no strings sex go to a prostitute.

So you don't condone affairs but prostitution is fine?

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

No

But if you are going to mess around it is better to do it with a pro as no feeling will be involved either side. Serial adulterers stand the very real risk of a " fatal attraction " episode. Men can disengage their brain when having sex very few women can do the same.

 

[Les Biehn]

Another question. Is is wrong to fancy a 16 yr old girl if you are 11 years older than her but thought she was in her 20's and she is absolutely stunning?