brightonlass2009
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Why are you bothered about offending her? isn't she offending you?
True.
Why are you bothered about offending her? isn't she offending you?
Spot on, or alternatively keep the landlord well informed, act like your really worried for your safety, flutter some eyelids and the landlord might change the locks for you, problem solved!Get their gear into black bin liners and hoof it into the street. Voila, eviction. If they get arsey, then explain that legally they are not allowed to remain in the property owing to the rental agreement. Tell them to find somewhere else. And get the keys back.
Yeah. We just got a message one day saying 'oh is it okay if...lives with us?' We didn't even reply and it went ahead.
You deserve each other.
I hope this has been of help, and you have not been charged for the information.
Sorry, but so what?
Can you see a common thread emerging here?
To recap, you're clearly unhappy with the arrangement, but since you've given us more information, it's evident you're under a delusion that only slinging him out will resolve the issue, and that not offending this piss-taking girlfriend appears to be more important.
It also sounds like your safety is at issue and you're prepared to compromise it for the sake of... what, precisely?
Unless there is a radical shift in their considerations (unlikely, it seems), I can't see any other option than to sling them out.
Just get them both out, or move out yourselves. Either way, you have now learnt that flat sharing is a minefield that never seems to work well. If you posted a photo I am sure that there would be someone here who could offer you a room and a "fair rent".
Where is 1066 these days? ;-)
Funny you should say that, I actually live half hour away, but sadly no room at the innwell unless any of them live in colchester, that may not work,
I take it the actual rent payments are up to date and you get on well with your land lord.
If so explain to the land lord about your predicament and ask them to make a spontaneous visit to the address.
They can say they’ve been tipped off by a nosey neighbour. If the land lord is reasonable they can explain that he / she is not licensed or insured for 4 persons within the premises and that the male must leave.
From what you say I doubt that your so called friend could afford accommodation on her own and her boyfriend is as unlikely to put his hand in his pocket to live anywhere else as he is there.
Yes the atmosphere may be frosty for a bit but you should get the desired result without looking to much of a villain yourself.
Legally you don’t really have a leg to stand on but morally you are in the right but morals don’t pay cash.
Accept that you have been had over and get him out by these means and learn from the lesson in life.
Dennis professional legal advisor but this advice for you is free.
If you live in Colchester, you can't really expect much better! It's an overspill for Croydon...
Hey I didn't want to live here. It just so happened that my uni is good for my course.
and besides, he's not from Colchester, he's from Bognor.
well unless any of them live in colchester, that may not work,
That would be funny as fookMaybe he reads NSC and will get the message
Shame we're not in the same Division and playing you next weekend as we'll pop round and resolve the situation for you. Us Brighton fans stick togeather