[Misc] How lovers part.....?

[The Clamp]

NSC can be an excellent place to seek neutral advice, always the sheer joy of a binfest though too

Fixed for you

 

[AmexRuislip]

Called it a day yesterday / today with a lovely and beautiful lady, after a year. She's married and living with him in separate rooms these days, but not the question...

No worries, I shall deal with my issues.

My question is very simple, how do you deal with the situation when you see the ex in town again, as an example, after being so close intimately for so long and so deep in each other's mind?

Coffee and all that same old?

Have they got back together, because children are involved?
I would call it a day and move on

 

[The Clamp]

Let’s not overlook the fact that if you’re going out with someone who cheats on their partner, you’re going out with someone who cheats on their partner.

 

[Albion in the north]

Live.... And learn.
"sleeping in separate rooms"
"getting back togther for the kids" etc
And all that is just letting you down lightly. Trust me, Ive been there.

As to how to react? Avoid if at all possible, especially if shes with her husband. Dont replay the situation again. If you are not both over it, one of you will always be wanting to be back together again. If shes made the break, Id tactfully suggest that she will get over it quicker than you, so you will only be making it painful for yourself. I have seen, and dealt, with a lot of people in my life. There are many that want to ,masochistically, go over it again and again. learn to not be one of those.

 

[forumwayseagull]

Avoid the circles she will go in. Its easier that way, prevents the awkwardness/tricky conversations.

Move onwards and don't look backwards as it is the best way to go by far (and least painful)

 

[Gabbafella]

Avoid her if possible.
If it was an amicable split then be polite but don't get too involved.
If it was her decision then make sure you're always happy when you see her. Nothing pisses off an ex more than happiness and moving on.

 

[Weststander]

Avoid her if possible.
If it was an amicable split then be polite but don't get too involved.
If it was her decision then make sure you're always happy when you see her. Nothing pisses off an ex more than happiness and moving on.

 

[KeegansHairPiece]

Pornhub premium subscription.

 

[Knocky's Nose]

Yes, you'll always need to don your tin hat on here when asking for help or advice, but we're all nice knobheads and you'll get some good shouts.

Personally - always remember that when a woman 'moves on' in her head, you've a 0.0001% chance of getting her back. They're good at that.

Never be nasty or vengeful. Be polite and decent, but.. don't try and use that as a gateway to get back in there. Just accept that you had some cracking shags (hopefully!) which you both enjoyed (hopefully!) and had some good times together.

You live, you learn, and always look back at the good times. I think it was some Northern Monkeys who sang 'don't look back in anger'

 

[Cheshire Cat]

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My wife wants me back.


I would learn the lessons here, and go own brand for a while.

 

[The Clamp]

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My wife wants me back.


I would learn the lessons here, and go own brand for a while.

"Own Brand"

 

[Hampster Gull]

Was she hot

 

[Ooh it’s a corner]

Saw the thread title and thought it was going to be about Johnson and Cummings!

As others have said aim to steer clear and move on - good luck

 

[LamieRobertson]

Forget about her. While you’re moping about and worrying about things that will likely never happen, I guarantee you she’s out looking for her next drilling. Birds aren’t nearly as sentimental as we give them credit for. Man up.

Hope this helps.

You old romantic

 

[Denis]

Called it a day yesterday / today with a lovely and beautiful lady, after a year. She's married and living with him in separate rooms these days, but not the question...

No worries, I shall deal with my issues.

My question is very simple, how do you deal with the situation when you see the ex in town again, as an example, after being so close intimately for so long and so deep in each other's mind?

Coffee and all that same old?

Your name isn’t Branson is it?
See post ‘ My wife wants me back’ !

 

[Seagull]

Do what feels right for you at the time. Perhaps resist the urge to pre-think it too much.

 

[PILTDOWN MAN]

PM if you want to talk mate

 

[Raleigh Chopper]

https://youtu.be/K4xoHjNjxus

 

[Shropshire Seagull]

Sharing a fanny is one thing but sharing a heart is really tough.

You ended it?
Because you wanted her all to yourself and she said "no" I want to stay with my first partner ....

Best you did, turn the page and move on.

 

[Jim Van Winkle]

When presented with a situation such as this the only thing to do is think ‘what would Super Hans from Peep Show do?’

That my friend is some gold plated life advice.