Holiday Romance.

[hitony]

(One on the left)

The one on the left, that's my wife!!!!!

 

[Max Paper]

Genuinely, that's a great ending.

Did you manage to get her to the moving, to the obviously better county of Sussex?

I did but it was tough at first, I had a basement flat at the time on Ditchling Rise and she just didn't like it so we moved to shoreham near the beach and she's very settled now! I miss the hustle and bustle of central Brighton but it was the least I could do seeing as she moved 100+ miles from her friends and family!

 

[GoldWithFalmer]

Friend of my missus met a bloke on holiday about 8-10 years ago and they were married within about 3 weeks and they have a child and live in Scotland now-she had to move up there-

I am still amazed by it but proof that if it's genuine it can be done-

The fact your asking makes me think not-

Enjoy the memories and move forward.

PS don't book a date down here,the last time i did that ,she came down with 3 males friends......(awkward and just not the same)..

 

[Springal]

To be fair we have all been there - most just don't put it on the Internet though

 

[Return of the Rev]

jesus, not another wet wipe opening up. Look mate, if she says "it's too hard for us to meet up when we get home", that translates as, "you were ok when i was on holiday, but i've got a boyfriend at home, so that's it".

exactly

 

[smeariestbat]

however, i did meet a girl who came from norway about 4 years ago, she was on holiday seeing her family. they came into the pub where i was working about a week before she was due to go back. i turned on the charm and she ended up not going back to norway. we've now been married 2 and a bit years, first kid due in january and we're moving out to norway next year. So it can work.

 

[GoldWithFalmer]

I went on holiday to magaluf in 2004 with the lads, met this bird from Basingstoke in the hotel. Cracker, decided to try and make it work, 8 years laters she's asleep next to me right now with a ring on her finger and two kids playing downstairs! It can work

[MENTION=14929]superbez[/MENTION] sorry but i had my NSC head on for a moment and just had to re read this 3 or 4 times,as i genuinely misconstrued this for something of a weird and wonderful sexual act...

HOWEVER- i have to admit that is a cracking story and proof that luck fortunes the brave and well done

EDIT-KIDS MEANING A MAN'S BALLS BY THE WAY

 

[junior]

She's still on holiday till Friday so best to leave anything until then.

Some waiter will be nuts deep in her by now so i'd start getting her out of your mind. Im not too far from Northamptonshire so if you are really desperate give me her number. I'll go round and smash her shitbox in and film it for you to watch if you want.

 

[misterspatch]

Don't become a photographer.

one's she took on my phone.

 

[bravohotelalpha]

already have done a little bit but I recovered it. From a girl's perspective, if you thought you could never have someone, would that make you want them more or less?

64 million dollar question - that really does depend

It depends on just how deeply a girl has fallen and whether she decides to follow her head or her heart.

Many moons ago I followed my heart, no regrets at all but many/most in my shoes would have followed their heads

No easy answers, it certainly worked for superbez tho

You have nothing to lose and if you don't try you won't know

 

[misterspatch]

Some waiter will be nuts deep in her by now so i'd start getting her out of your mind. Im not too far from Northamptonshire so if you are really desperate give me her number. I'll go round and smash her shitbox in and film it for you to watch if you want.

Thanks for the offer but i'm fine thanks. Seriously.

 

[junior]

(One on the left)

Cancel my last offer, i didnt realise she was 14.

 

[Lady Gull]

I met my partner in Oldham one night - I was staying with a friend for a girls weekend - he was djing in the pub - we got chatting - I was travelling back to shoreham the next day - he got my number off a mate and text me - all week and drove down on the Friday night and stayed two weeks!!! Then he took me back to meet his mum for the weekend as he used to to the half time announcements at Spotland - so he took me to the footie!!!!

Then after the weekend he drive me back down to Shoreham and moved in with me!!!! 12 years ago that was - we got married 5 years ago have a little girl of 7.

So it can happen - x

 

[Racek]

Some waiter will be nuts deep in her by now so i'd start getting her out of your mind. Im not too far from Northamptonshire so if you are really desperate give me her number. I'll go round and smash her shitbox in and film it for you to watch if you want.

Ever thought about becoming a volunteer for the samaritans?

 

[kevtherev]

Holiday humps are just that. Leave it alone, she is probably getting straight off the plane and straight into bed with a boyfriend in Northampton.

 

[GoldWithFalmer]

Ever thought about becoming a volunteer for the samaritans?

 

[Ninja Elephant]

Its f***ing hard, I'm getting too sensitive about the whole thing but I can't help it.

To be honest, tough love is spot on here. Enjoy the memories of the holiday and remember her for that, rather than wanting something more and then losing touch with her entirely. Take it from me, yoy don't want to waste 8 years of your life hoping for something more and doing anything you can think of to make the distance thing no issue to the point where you consider moving to the shit tip place she lives just to have a chance with her. You'll waste emotional energy and frankly, your eyes will be closed to girls right in front of you. Don't forget about her, but don't romanticise about her would be my advice. The alternative is unpleasant, trust me. At some point you have to accept she just isn't bothered by you and you have to move on, somehow. Look on the brightside, atleast you didn't waste 8 years trying.

one's she took on my phone.

How old is she? Over 16 I am going to say cutie, under 16 I'm going to decline to comment. (doesn't change what I said earlier in the post though!)

 

[nwgull]

already have done a little bit but I recovered it. From a girl's perspective, if you thought you could never have someone, would that make you want them more or less?

Less. It makes girls want you LESS! Any woman that says otherwise is just saying it out of a pining memory of some bloke who they once fancied a bit, but because he didn't pursue them it led them to see him as unattainable and therefore really wanting this man; i.e they then wanted him to pursue them more than anything. Sense?

 

[misterspatch]

To be honest, tough love is spot on here. Enjoy the memories of the holiday and remember her for that, rather than wanting something more and then losing touch with her entirely. Take it from me, yoy don't want to waste 8 years of your life hoping for something more and doing anything you can think of to make the distance thing no issue to the point where you consider moving to the shit tip place she lives just to have a chance with her. You'll waste emotional energy and frankly, your eyes will be closed to girls right in front of you. Don't forget about her, but don't romanticise about her would be my advice. The alternative is unpleasant, trust me. At some point you have to accept she just isn't bothered by you and you have to move on, somehow. Look on the brightside, atleast you didn't waste 8 years trying.






How old is she? Over 16 I am going to say cutie, under 16 I'm going to decline to comment. (doesn't change what I said earlier in the post though!)

Shes 17 but anyway it should be easier when I get back to College and start seeing other girls again.

 

[misterspatch]

Less. It makes girls want you LESS! Any woman that says otherwise is just saying it out of a pining memory of some bloke who they once fancied a bit, but because he didn't pursue them it led them to see him as unattainable and therefore really wanting this man; i.e they then wanted him to pursue them more than anything. Sense?

So do I say that I want to meet up or pretend I don't want to in the hope she wants me more as a result?