the full harris
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- Feb 14, 2004
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B.M.F said:Read it again then TFH. I said the family and the local authorities. FFS. If your mum or dad or whoever was going down hill due to mental health would you not realise? If your family had a history of mental illness would the authorites not keep a closer eye on you? I think you will find the answer in both cases is yes or at least they have noticed but have neglected to act on it. That is where the problems arise from. It is the same with the majority of kiddy fiddling that goes on. Most of the time Kiddy fiddlers used to suffer the same thing as kids and thus see it as the norm. The number of families that have 3rd or 4th generation fiddlers in the family is astonishing. Yes, in my book it is worse than what has happened in this case but when you are aware of a problem you should hold your hands up and admit you could have done more to stop it.
I agree with a lot of what you say, though the kiddy fiddling point is a little more complex than just 'they see it as the norm'.
I have to say I assumed that the man was already getting help from his family/authorities.