Do you get it now?
Ahh, rudeness again.
Black and gay people may or may not 'try to diffrentiate themselves'. This is irrlevant.
Now the crux of the matter. Minority groups, black, gay, LGBTQRSTUVWXYZ and transgender, continually tell the mainstream that they are as normal as the rest of society and want to be seen as such, and as far as I and many others are concerned they are, until they tell me that they are different.
Cake and eat it?