Kev the Ape
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The positive i havent split up with my Gf. . things are fine. just taking things slowly. and building the relationship.
e77 said:This really is a soap opera !
bigc said:kev talks about himself in 3rd person now!
Kev the Ape said:The positive i havent split up with my Gf. . things are fine. just taking things slowly. and building the relationship.
Bwian said:Exactly what is the point of this thread?
Are you related to Perseus?
London Irish said:When are sliding for second base Kev?
the full harris said:ah the bases,
can someone just run by me, what exactly happens at each base?
i seem to have made it through my teenage years asking 'mate, did you get to third base?' without knowing the exact definition of each base and, even, how many there are.
so,
how many are there,
what happens at each one?
and, for example, what base is rimming?
thanks in advance.
that is KevJuan Albion said:
Bwian said:Here you are:
Dear Experts,
I feel really stupid because I don't know this. What are the bases, like what do people mean by going to first base, second base, third base, and hitting a homerun?
matthatter
The Answer:
Dear matthatter,
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There's no need to feel stupid — this is one of our most popular questions! There is no "text book" answer that define what the bases represent. But many people, especially young people, use metaphors taken from baseball — as "code" meaning different types of sex play. But there is a general understanding about what it means to "get to" each of the bases.
In general, people refer to French kissing — open mouth kissing — as first base. Second base is usually manually stimulating — using one's hand on — a woman's breasts. Third base is manual stimulation of the genitals — guys' or girls'. And hitting a homerun generally refers to having vaginal intercourse.
The problem with these very old-fashioned metaphors for sex play is that they imply that there is a competition going on between sex partners. Today, we are more aware that sex partners are equals, and that competing against one another to get what they want sexually doesn't make for healthy relationships. We know that sex should be about communication, not about competition.
Hope this information helps!
Take care,
Teenwire® Editors
Bwian said:Here you are:
Dear Experts,
I feel really stupid because I don't know this. What are the bases, like what do people mean by going to first base, second base, third base, and hitting a homerun?
matthatter
The Answer:
Dear matthatter,
Join our mailing list to get the Ask the Expert question every day! Just enter your e-mail address and hit the "Sign Up" button. It's free.
There's no need to feel stupid — this is one of our most popular questions! There is no "text book" answer that define what the bases represent. But many people, especially young people, use metaphors taken from baseball — as "code" meaning different types of sex play. But there is a general understanding about what it means to "get to" each of the bases.
In general, people refer to French kissing — open mouth kissing — as first base. Second base is usually manually stimulating — using one's hand on — a woman's breasts. Third base is manual stimulation of the genitals — guys' or girls'. And hitting a homerun generally refers to having vaginal intercourse.
The problem with these very old-fashioned metaphors for sex play is that they imply that there is a competition going on between sex partners. Today, we are more aware that sex partners are equals, and that competing against one another to get what they want sexually doesn't make for healthy relationships. We know that sex should be about communication, not about competition.
Hope this information helps!
Take care,
Teenwire® Editors