This just proves that football is a game of opinions where statistics can be easily manipulated to prove one's point of view.The facts still say we drew two of the four games you mention and lost another by one goal to a team that won the tournament. We were lucky to draw against Italy in 2012 I admit, but we were actually very unlucky to lose twice to Portugal in 2004 and 2006, and against Brazil in 2002 (people only moan about that because we couldn't score against ten men, but ignore the rest of the match). Surely all these results do is prove where England are in the pyramid, i.e. below the best 5/6 sides in the world but as good as most others.
What do you realistically EXPECT of England? That's a genuine question. I am comfortable with the fact that we are a second tier nation. We are not a footballing power and will never be among the top six favourites for any tournament, but we are one of the better countries in the second tier who, on their day, can live with the best. It also only takes one tournament where we enjoy a bit of momentum, a shock win or two, a fortunate draw or surprise exits for some big hitters elsewhere and we COULD win it. It's a long shot every time, but I still live in hope that we can do it. The fact you seem so annoyed suggests you genuinely expect more than that?
I expect us to get to the last 16 usually, but we ought to be capable of getting to a semi once a decade, not once every 40 years. Our resources and population are comparable to France, Spain and Italy - all 3 of those nations have records that absolutely shit all over ours. So does that of the Netherlands (population 13.5m). Our track record in my lifetime (42) is probably worse than that of Portugal. Even Greece and Denmark have won a POT in that time FFS.