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Do Women Prefer

What do Women prefer ?.

  • Bastards

    Votes: 41 36.9%
  • Nice Guys

    Votes: 17 15.3%
  • A Mixture of both as and when required

    Votes: 53 47.7%

  • Total voters
    111
  • Poll closed .


Uncle Spielberg

Well-known member
Jul 6, 2003
43,094
Lancing
Fraid not. A shirt not tucked in with a leather jacket is not a good look either.Imo :lolol:

Thats a good call actually. I noticed that myself :lol:
 




Lady Bracknell

Handbag at Dawn
Jul 5, 2003
4,514
The Metropolis
I don't think women like stereotypes! Honest, amusing and interesting chaps will do nicely. Not "rough" or "smooth". Just decent blokes interested in more than themselves.
 


GT49er

Well-known member
NSC Patron
Feb 1, 2009
49,186
Gloucester
I think women prefer a nice guy - but only after they've shagged a few (lucky) bastards first.......................
 








Gully

Monkey in a seagull suit.
Apr 24, 2004
16,812
Way out west
I reckon that ultimately they like lots of qualities (some mentioned above, like the ability to make them laugh...for the right reasons!)...but, it has to be said, we have all had mates who fall firmly into the bastard category and treat women like dirt...the amazing thing is that they rarely seem to be single!
 




perseus

Broad Blue & White stripe
Jul 5, 2003
23,461
Sūþseaxna
Caprice never knows what she wants.

And the older woman says she knows what I need, but that is not what I want !














































I think I want another drink !
 




Mar 13, 2008
1,101
I would say neither. I have tried being both and neither has worked.
 


I feel unfortunately nice guys ALWAYS finish last. Sad but true.

There's nice, and there is sycophantic.

Women (in general) are watching a man to see that he treats her with discipline as well as compassion as and when she deserves. Human nature decrees that some people will have a tendency to have esteem issues and pride - which will mess with their head if they aren't circumspect about their relationship/s.
They are looking to a man to be able to love with discipline as well as softness as required, as that's also intrinsic to the raising of children.
Discipline is a manifestation for love too, doncha know.

Sad-arsed sorry-for-themselves losers will often melt into this 'nice guys lose' excuse, but they have themselves to blame anyway. Plus, if it ain't meant to be they ought to respect the great fate-decider and get on with things in the present and stop mulling over their tragic past.
 


Twinkle Toes

Growing old disgracefully
Apr 4, 2008
11,138
Hoveside
I reckon it all boils down to who/what we fancy; & timing, strangely enough. What part's nature & what parts are nurture? We could debate it forever & still be none the wiser.
 






1

1066gull

Guest
Its all to do with confidence.

I have some friends who are fat and ugly, and they personally admit that but they have confidence, social skills and the right things when and when not to say if you get my jizz.
 










Taybha

Whalewhine
Oct 8, 2008
27,669
Uwantsumorwat
Frankly who cares what women think anyhow, i mean its not like its up to them if we want to take them bowling then expect a bunk up. Bowlings not cheap these days :rolleyes:
 


seagullsovergrimsby

#cpfctinpotclub
Aug 21, 2005
43,944
Crap Town
Women like men to behave like bastards , if we were nice to them they would be suspicious.
 




Fran Hagarty

Well-known member
Jul 5, 2003
2,412
Mid Sussex
Nice guys, all the way. Who likes anyone nasty? Beats me! LOL
 


Braders

Abi Fletchers Gimpboy
Jul 15, 2003
29,224
Brighton, United Kingdom
I class myself as a nice guy - so bastards obviously
 


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