Braggfan
In the beginning there was nothing, which exploded
- May 12, 2014
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Oh give over .... bullying indeed I have no interest in cricket whatsoever and wouldn't have even opened the thread if I'd known it was about cricket but Mr Hart selected the subject as Albion rather than Cricket and then wrote a cryptic opening post so how was I, or anyone else without any interest in cricket, meant to know what the rant was about ?
I’ve been thinking about how to reply to “bullying indeed”, because the simple fact is YES it is bullying.
My natural reaction was one of anger because I hate bullying and your casual indifference to it, but maybe rather than trying to shout you down I’ll just try and explain to you where you went wrong. Because it occurs to me that rather than just cricket, your ignorance clearly extends to the subject of online bullying. Maybe it even extends to the fact the OP started a thread regarding the effects of online bullying on his daughter who has been subjected to it recently and the negative impacts it can have on a young person’s life.
However your comment clearly shows you were aware of his daughter’s television appearance, so the fact you thought it was ok to poke fun at his with that comment suggests 1 of 2 things. Firstly that you don’t care what impact it has. Let’s hope it’s not that, because that wouldn’t just put you in the ignorant camp but also the odious human being one. The second option is you’re just ignorant about what online bullying entails and that you were writing something that would have negative and potentially harmful impact.
I can’t know what you were thinking, only you can. But if you want to brush this off as an overreaction, just dismiss it, call me a snowflake etc, you can, but I’d point out that is exactly what bullies do so that they can justify to themselves that they aren’t really bad people. Alternatively you could have a think about it for a second, and recognise that you made a mistake posting that comment. That even though you thought it was a throwaway comment you could have actually be doing some damage to someone else. And if you do come to that conclusion, it wouldn’t hurt to maybe offer the OP an apology.