I'm guessing Horsham would be expensive given the op wants more bung for her buck.I agree with your sentiment on all three of those places. Horley has a Waitrose, and that is literally the best thing you can say about it. East Grinstead is as you describe, except to also say that it is the UK head quarters of all the nutjob "religions" that America has to offer - most notably scientology. Horsham is fine and the schools are decent.