PascalGroß Tips
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- Jan 29, 2024
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Being a football 'fan/supporter' can be a very emotional thing. There's lots of things being mentioned on here by others that just don't bother me. That's not me saying these things shouldn't bother other posters - we are all different. I love football. I love watching football - especially going to games. I love going to away games and visiting stadiums I've not been to before.
The only thing that gets me angry or shaking my head at games (in terms of supporters - home and away) is when I see/hear homophobic gestures (fortunately I haven't experienced any racism for many years) and some of the pathetic goading that goes on at most games.
Before moving to Sussex, I lived in Bournemouth and had a season ticket at the old Dean Court. I supported my local team. Back in the 1989/90 season, I had two lads sat next to me that were from Leeds. It's such a long time ago now that I can't remember if they were down in Bournemouth working or if they were at Uni. They were Leeds fans... and loved watching live football. Hence they'd bought season tickets. They cheered Bournemouth on throughout the season - just like any other local fan - and we always had a good chat about football in general and Bournemouth's history.
But of course, the last game of that season was the infamous May Bank holiday game against Leeds. Bournemouth needed a win to avoid relegation and Leeds needed the win to ensure automatic promotion. I've never experienced anything like that day at a football match. The pitched battle in the big car park between thousands of Leeds fans - many having travelled down to the south coast without tickets - and the police in riot gear was pretty intimidating as I made my way to the ground. Many towns along the coast were smashed up that weekend by Leeds 'fans'.
The game itself was one of the most tense I've ever been to. Often difficult to follow what was going on on the pitch. My two Leeds 'friends' just sat there not knowing what to make of it. Lee Chapman scored the only goal with an assist from Chris Kamara. The two lads managed to control their emotions and didn't celebrate in any way that would identify them as being Leeds. They apologised at the end of the game for the behaviour of their fans and that was the last time I saw them as they were heading back to Leeds that summer.
So back to my original point. I don't understand why some get worked up and angry about relatively small things that they could just ignore. A lot of the suggestions on here about how to stop 'home' fans getting in our away end - or fans of other clubs that live local to Brighton and legitimately buy tickets to see their team at the Amex, just aren't going to work or make a difference (assuming those fans behave themselves, of course).
Life's too short to keep getting angry. It doesn't do anyone any good.
The only thing that gets me angry or shaking my head at games (in terms of supporters - home and away) is when I see/hear homophobic gestures (fortunately I haven't experienced any racism for many years) and some of the pathetic goading that goes on at most games.
Before moving to Sussex, I lived in Bournemouth and had a season ticket at the old Dean Court. I supported my local team. Back in the 1989/90 season, I had two lads sat next to me that were from Leeds. It's such a long time ago now that I can't remember if they were down in Bournemouth working or if they were at Uni. They were Leeds fans... and loved watching live football. Hence they'd bought season tickets. They cheered Bournemouth on throughout the season - just like any other local fan - and we always had a good chat about football in general and Bournemouth's history.
But of course, the last game of that season was the infamous May Bank holiday game against Leeds. Bournemouth needed a win to avoid relegation and Leeds needed the win to ensure automatic promotion. I've never experienced anything like that day at a football match. The pitched battle in the big car park between thousands of Leeds fans - many having travelled down to the south coast without tickets - and the police in riot gear was pretty intimidating as I made my way to the ground. Many towns along the coast were smashed up that weekend by Leeds 'fans'.
The game itself was one of the most tense I've ever been to. Often difficult to follow what was going on on the pitch. My two Leeds 'friends' just sat there not knowing what to make of it. Lee Chapman scored the only goal with an assist from Chris Kamara. The two lads managed to control their emotions and didn't celebrate in any way that would identify them as being Leeds. They apologised at the end of the game for the behaviour of their fans and that was the last time I saw them as they were heading back to Leeds that summer.
So back to my original point. I don't understand why some get worked up and angry about relatively small things that they could just ignore. A lot of the suggestions on here about how to stop 'home' fans getting in our away end - or fans of other clubs that live local to Brighton and legitimately buy tickets to see their team at the Amex, just aren't going to work or make a difference (assuming those fans behave themselves, of course).
Life's too short to keep getting angry. It doesn't do anyone any good.