At what stage is enough, ENOUGH ?

[bhaexpress]

To be honest although it's hard for you you need to cut your losses and do as she wants. One of two things will happen. She will either continue to ignore you if which case in the long run you will be better off. On the other hand she might realise she has made a big mistake and come back to you begging for forgiveness.

All you're doing now is torturing yourself so you need to be cruel to be kind, to both yourself and her.

 

[Insel affe]

Don't be the fall back Guy. Never contact her again. She will contact you regretting losing you. I can GUARANTEE it. Not now., maybe 3 months time. By then however you would have moved on and either have forgotten what you saw in her in the first place, being dating a new cutey or just hanging out have the Summer of 09.

Watch Swingers. It will inspire you.

Mike: Okay, so what if I don't want to give up on her?
Rob: You don't call.
Mike: But you said I don't call if I wanted to give up on her.
Rob: Right.
Mike: So I don't call either way?
Rob: Right.
Mike: So what's the difference?
Rob: There is no difference right now. See, Mike, the only difference between giving up and not giving up is if you take her back when she wants to come back. But you can't do anything to make her want to come back. In fact, you can only do stuff to make her not want to come back.
Mike: So the only difference is if I forget about her or just pretend to forget about her?
Rob: Right.
Mike: Well that sucks.
Rob: Yeah, it sucks.
Mike: So it's just like a retroactive decision, then? I mean I could, like, forget about her and then when she comes back make like I just pretended to forget about her?
Rob: Right. Although probably more likely the opposite.
Mike: What do you mean?
Rob: I mean at first you're going to pretend to forget about her, you'll not call her, I don't know, whatever... but then eventually, you really will forget about her.
Mike: Well what if she comes back first?
Rob: Mmmm... see, that's the thing, is somehow they know not to come back until you really forget.
Mike: There's the rub.
Rob: There's the rub.

uncle c i see you have another day off eh, still no mortgages to punt

 

[bhaexpress]

Last year I met a similar lady after my divorce and she has caused my life to be hell.Women are so different to men and to be honest if they did not have tits and pussys we would never ever want anything to do with them.

I have to say that's a pretty profound and accurate statement

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

Another quote for you

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Rob: You don't look at the things that you have, you only look at the stuff that you don't have. Those guys are right about you - you're money.
Mike: Then why won't she call?
Rob: She won't call because you left. she's got her own life to deal with, man, and that's in New York... alright? And she's a sweet girl, and I love her to pieces, but f*** her, man. You gotta get on with your life. You gotta let go of the past. And Mikey, when you do, I'm telling you: the future is beautiful, alright? Look out the window. It's sunny every day here. It's like manifest destiny. Don't tell me we didn't make it. We made it! We are here. And everything that is past is prologued to this. All of the shit that didn't kill us is only - you know, all that shit. You're gonna get over it.
Mike: How did you get over it? I mean, how long did it take?
Rob: Sometimes it still hurts. You know how it is, man. It's like, you wake up every day and it hurts a little bit less, and then you wake up one day and it doesn't hurt at all. And the funny thing is, is that, this is kinda wierd, but it's like, it's like you almost miss that pain.
Mike: You miss the pain?
Rob: Yeah, for the same reason that you missed her... because you lived with it for so long.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

uncle c i see you have another day off eh, still no mortgages to punt

Whats a mortgage ?.

 

[Insel affe]

Whats a mortgage ?.

that bad is it ?

P.S wanna buy some flooring ?

 

[throbinson]

Tell her to f*** off cos she is screwing with your life

 

[itszamora]

Tell her to f*** off cos she is screwing with your life

Sums it up well

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

Tell her to f*** off cos she is screwing with your life

Easier said than done but the sentiments are right.

 

[NMH]

Tell her to f*** off cos she is screwing with your life

Therein lies a conundrum that is just expressing weakness.
No, SHE is not "screwing with your life", YOU are screwing with your own life by allowing the breeze-drifted decisions of another person to affect you.

No, you do not own your self, unless you know how to enact closure - for. your. self.

Got that? No big dramas, no displays of "this is OVER", just .....close.


Oh, and never forget those beautiful words from the surprisingly wise Slade;
"look to the future now, it's only just begun".

So there it is, merry mid-March.

 

[Ditchboy]

Put your heart in a box for the time being and listen to your head.

 

[Smythe]

Dump her......move on, plenty more out there, and summers on the way so they will be wearing less!!

 

[Booley]

Stop being Gay Rodders!!!
And ditch her, def easier said then done!

 

[alan partridge]

Don't be the fall back Guy. Never contact her again. She will contact you regretting losing you. I can GUARANTEE it. Not now., maybe 3 months time. By then however you would have moved on and either have forgotten what you saw in her in the first place, being dating a new cutey or just hanging out have the Summer of 09.

Watch Swingers. It will inspire you.

Mike: Okay, so what if I don't want to give up on her?
Rob: You don't call.
Mike: But you said I don't call if I wanted to give up on her.
Rob: Right.
Mike: So I don't call either way?
Rob: Right.
Mike: So what's the difference?
Rob: There is no difference right now. See, Mike, the only difference between giving up and not giving up is if you take her back when she wants to come back. But you can't do anything to make her want to come back. In fact, you can only do stuff to make her not want to come back.
Mike: So the only difference is if I forget about her or just pretend to forget about her?
Rob: Right.
Mike: Well that sucks.
Rob: Yeah, it sucks.
Mike: So it's just like a retroactive decision, then? I mean I could, like, forget about her and then when she comes back make like I just pretended to forget about her?
Rob: Right. Although probably more likely the opposite.
Mike: What do you mean?
Rob: I mean at first you're going to pretend to forget about her, you'll not call her, I don't know, whatever... but then eventually, you really will forget about her.
Mike: Well what if she comes back first?
Rob: Mmmm... see, that's the thing, is somehow they know not to come back until you really forget.
Mike: There's the rub.
Rob: There's the rub.

Uncle Spielberg posts something I like:yahoo:

I watched this again the other day. Great film. Reading that I realise that's what actually happens isn't it? He meets that girl, is really chuffed, Ex calls....

 

[Barrel of Fun]

Ultimatum time. If she wants you then she has to treat you like a human being. By the sounds of it, you would be better off not wasting your time with someone that is messing with your mind. You are obviously a nice chap and do not deserve this sort of treatment.

Is now the right time to ask for pics?

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

" You are obviously a nice chap and do not deserve this sort of treatment. "

There's the rub. Being a nice chap means you are far more likely to be treated like shit. Sad but true.

 

[Mackenzie]

Looks like she is walking all over your emotions, I'd say that you are her safety net. If I was you, from experience of this sort of thing happening to me, just try and get on with your life without her as she doesn't sound like the girl you need. I know thats probably not what you want to hear and it will be difficult, but just let it go.

Good luck Jack

 

[LABHA]

Omg pull yourself together you wet lettuce.

 

[SirDouglasLoft]

Happened to me last year, she came crawling back after a while though:yahoo:

 

[Easy 10]

Good grief. 40-odd replies and not ONE request for....

...pics ?

This place is going to the dogs.