I know where you're coming from. As a relative newcomer to nationalism there are things about 'being English', or more accurately other people's concept of 'being English' that I don't like. However I think you've just got to take the rough with the smooth, we're a broad church that embraces a vast number of different views, some of which are contradictory.It's not where your from, it's where your at.
I have always thought of myself as English, but I am not really sure what is means any more. Some things about being English make me so proud but some make me so ashamed. I am not sure why but the flag waving nationalism doesn't sit well with me I don't really understand it.
I am me, that'll do.