pearl
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There's some very tall people on here these days
I’m 6’ 6”
Not sure you can compare a few minutes on the phone, with no physical impact on others, to several hours of potential physical discomfort caused by being, basically, inconsiderate. Agree though that most of the time the vast majority will recline on long haul outside of meal times simply because it's more comfortable.
Cabin crew are also pretty well versed in dealing with this in my experience. If you complain about the recliner in front at meal times, they'll always tell them to go upright (often there will be an announcement asking all passengers to do so). At other times, surely the answer is to just use a bit of consideration ? Simple quick check with the person behind (or at least warn them you're about to do it).........there's usually a compromise to be found. It's only the utter bellends that cause a problem, then you ask the cabin crew to intervene. All that said, we've made a conscious decision to only go long-haul in min premium economy - I do realise we're lucky to be able to do that - even if it means going away less frequently.
If both seats are upright then both passengers are equally ‘comfortable’.
If the front seat is then reclined, it increases the comfort of that passenger at the expense of the taller passenger who is now more uncomfortable as a result.
That’s not hypocrisy, it’s common sense.
There's some very tall people on here these days
I don't think it's a remotely comparable analogy unless when you answer your phone you thrust the table against someone else's knees BUT, to answer your question, if I thought the call was urgent I'd take it, keep it as short and quiet as possible and tell the caller I'd call them back later - no one in the cafe needs to hear my conversation and I find it incredibly rude when people get on a train/bus etc or sit in a cafe and make long loud phone calls. I just think, in almost every situation in life, if you show a bit of consideration and thoughtfulness to those around you most situations resolve themselves.
How so? You don't know the circumstances of the recliner. They could have a back issue that makes sitting in an upright position for that length of time very uncomfortable for them...
And you're missing the point further. It's only really tall people that are making the complaints on here. Most normal sized people I'd imagine are equally as comfortable with or without the recline. What seems to be the running thread throughout this is that tall people struggle, and they expect everyone else to adapt their behaviour for said tall people. The adaptation of behaviour to fit their needs is selfish and hypocritical.
Well if you took up yogaWhere to, the overhead locker?
Well if you took up yoga
Really?
Here’s an alternative scenario which is hopefully more relevant than your cafe phone call.
I prefer to stand at football but am aware that I’m quite tall so, if the person behind me is short, I sit down to ensure they can see despite it reducing my own personal enjoyment. In other words I adaptate my behaviour to fit their needs.
Do you think that is selfish and hypocritical? or rather being aware of the circumstances of the people sitting around me and acting accordingly.
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Not with me sitting behind you wouldn’t.
Well if you took up yoga
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Well, i would.
I did actually once have someone push against my chair each time i tried to recline, after a brief exchange of words, and considering i were on a plane, it was clear that calling the flight attendant was the best way to resolve this, who in no uncertain terms, told him that he was being "a bit pathetic" and that the staff encourage seats to be reclined to maximize comfort. So back my chair went, for the next 10 hours.
Really?
Here’s an alternative scenario which is hopefully more relevant than your cafe phone call.
I prefer to stand at football but am aware that I’m quite tall so, if the person behind me is short, I sit down to ensure they can see despite it reducing my own personal enjoyment. In other words I adaptate my behaviour to fit their needs.
Do you think that is selfish and hypocritical? or rather being aware of the circumstances of the people sitting around me and acting accordingly.