This. Went to the Hampton and the Windmill with my girlfriend on our first date and we've been going out for 2 1/2 years, living together for 1 1/2.
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Advice needed on good places to go on a 1st date? (serious answers ony please!)
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This. Went to the Hampton and the Windmill with my girlfriend on our first date and we've been going out for 2 1/2 years, living together for 1 1/2.
ees complicated no?
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Take her to the Barnsley match!!
But seriously....a whole day sounds like London would be your best bet, plenty of show/dinner deals on line to go for, or if your feeling lucky..show/dinner/HOTEL deals!
Good luck n have fun!
P.S. We expect a piccie in the future!!
Well she is coming to the Sheff weds game
Living the single life does not mean sleeping around. It can mean just being by yourself for a while, being your own man, without (what some would call) the hassle of having girls in your life, casually or seriously.
Billy the Fish
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For first dates I always keep it simple and try and keep activities to a minimum. The main object is finding out if you like each other, if that is clouded as a result of both your attention being on something else rather than each other you can end up about two months and a few dates later finding out that you're not really compatible.
That is assuming that you don't already know each other. If you do know each other then it's a bit different and you shouldn't really be asking this question
That is assuming that you don't already know each other. If you do know each other then it's a bit different and you shouldn't really be asking this question
Lady Gull
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Trip on the London eye? Covent garden - meal in china town?
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Somewhere you can get a little physical. You wanna get balls deep right? Dont end up in the friend zone. But seriously...
Don't go cinema (you can't talk ffs)
Go for a meal, then a nice walk and then go somewhere for a drink. Make sure you don't interrupt her, ask her lots of questions about her and listen and remember what she says so you have shit to bounce off for your 2nd date. Ask her what she likes doing so you can plan the 2nd date in your head already! Be a gentlemen on a date, don't talk about your ex unless she asks and even then don't compliment your ex, infact try and steer away from that convo altogether. Try not to buy her the meal - bit forward - but do buy her a drink when you get to that later. London could be fun if you don't know it that well. Don't plan where your going, explore a bit and ask her what she fancys, or say 'that looks nice, wanna try that?' - spontaneous!
Be cool and be yourself. Don't bombard her with texts or calls after, wait a day to contact her again, keeping her on her toes. Then text her something nice and short like 'had a great day, fancy doing something again this week?' (texting should be used to meet (you can have the long convo's when together! That's the key, getting 1 on 1 time, so you've got the first meet already - lad)
Failing that if it's a shit date and you realise you don't like her that much.. Get balls deep and don't contact her again! Win, win no?
Don't go cinema (you can't talk ffs)
Go for a meal, then a nice walk and then go somewhere for a drink. Make sure you don't interrupt her, ask her lots of questions about her and listen and remember what she says so you have shit to bounce off for your 2nd date. Ask her what she likes doing so you can plan the 2nd date in your head already! Be a gentlemen on a date, don't talk about your ex unless she asks and even then don't compliment your ex, infact try and steer away from that convo altogether. Try not to buy her the meal - bit forward - but do buy her a drink when you get to that later. London could be fun if you don't know it that well. Don't plan where your going, explore a bit and ask her what she fancys, or say 'that looks nice, wanna try that?' - spontaneous!
Be cool and be yourself. Don't bombard her with texts or calls after, wait a day to contact her again, keeping her on her toes. Then text her something nice and short like 'had a great day, fancy doing something again this week?' (texting should be used to meet (you can have the long convo's when together! That's the key, getting 1 on 1 time, so you've got the first meet already - lad)
Failing that if it's a shit date and you realise you don't like her that much.. Get balls deep and don't contact her again! Win, win no?
Lady Gull
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For first dates I always keep it simple and try and keep activities to a minimum. The main object is finding out if you like each other, if that is clouded as a result of both your attention being on something else rather than each other you can end up about two months and a few dates later finding out that you're not really compatible.
That is assuming that you don't already know each other. If you do know each other then it's a bit different and you shouldn't really be asking this question
This man talks sense listen to him!!!!
ees complicated no?
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For first dates I always keep it simple and try and keep activities to a minimum. The main object is finding out if you like each other, if that is clouded as a result of both your attention being on something else rather than each other you can end up about two months and a few dates later finding out that you're not really compatible.
That is assuming that you don't already know each other. If you do know each other then it's a bit different and you shouldn't really be asking this question
Ahh should of said we've known each other for like 5 years, but not very well (friends of friends of friends sort of thing)
Also she has told me that she has liked me in the past, but I've been with someone so she wasn't going to get involved, it's a good job she didn't to as she is hot as hell and I wouldn't be able to stop myself TBH!
ifuhatepalacestandup
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to bed
The_Real_SussexSeagull123
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Agree with just Drinks on first date!
SeagullinExile
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SeagullinExile
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Good advice....but you forgot the - Don't stare at her breasts when talking to her bit!! My personal achilles heel i'm afraid!
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If she's got them out, she wants you to stare! Just not all night!
Just as well you didn't get back with your ex then.
Well she is coming to the Sheff weds game
Mate, I dont have a any good suggestions (been out the dating game for years) but wish you all the best with this one.
Skaville
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What's been the conversion rate then?