Zesh Rehman
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Does their sexual preference really effect how they play footy....no.
Who cares?
Agree. What has a players sexuality got to do with football?
Does their sexual preference really effect how they play footy....no.
Who cares?
Agree. What has a players sexuality got to do with football?
Nothing, but neither what TV shows a player likes, what music they're into, what they ordered at Nando's, and people log onto Twitter or buy the match programme to read this crap.
Nothing, but neither what TV shows a player likes, what music they're into, what they ordered at Nando's, and people log onto Twitter or buy the match programme to read this crap.
i couldn't give a toss what a player's sexuality was, but im sure gay players gives a toss that they cant be seen in public with their partners. Imagine not being able to go out, shopping, for dinner, whatever because you might be spotted by either a fan or some c*** from one of the red top rags.
People need to stop being so nosey!
Quite frankly, the footballers that are gay are wimps. Pretty much all of them lack the balls to say openly that they happen to be gay and then they wonder why they operate in a sport where no other professionals are publicly known to be gay. The very few that come out are such pussies that think that they have to quit the sport if they decide to come out. All of them think we genuinely care as much as they do about who they want to shag.
Worst of all, they are telling a big fat lie by adding to the growing impression that the majority of football supporters are highly homophobic, which simply isn't true. All I can say is, don't lay the blame at us. If gay footballers want to come out, the action lies with them, not us. They need to take action as a step to creating widespread understanding and acceptance that footballers can be gay, bi or straight. No one achieves anything by waiting for the stars to align before they take action.
This country is obsessed by wanting to out a gay footballer. Stephen Gateley had 24 hours to come out before a red top outed him.
Could a footballer go out for a cosy dinner with his boyfriend?
He could, but there would be a media storm. He would then be plagued by the media left, right and centre.
I'd probably opt for the quiet life and keep it a secret. I'm sure it's not as simple as coming out to friends and teammates. I think the initial hard part would be usurped by being gay and in a sport with the propensity for people to act vile.
Justin Fashanu was known to a few as being gay...but most of the few people did'nt bother about abuse...most remember him for that cracking goal he scored for Norwich...and the couple for us...sexualility only becomes a problem with the under aged.I don't understand why we, the footballing public, need to know anyway? The 8 players are obviously comfortable with their clubs and team mates knowing, those others that matter in their lives must know as well, so why do we need to know? I am sure that there have been loads of gay footballers in the past that played without it being an issue, so why is it a big deal now?
Why is it so preposterous that someone might not want to share his private life with the general public?
Nothing, but neither what TV shows a player likes, what music they're into, what they ordered at Nando's, and people log onto Twitter or buy the match programme to read this crap.
But those revelations are what the player CHOOSES to reveal about himself. I'm sure there are straight players who have other sexual pecadilloes, such as enjoying Dirty Sanchez, Watersports, Bagpipes or even Belgian Biscuits, but they don't go talking about them on Twitter or to the ragtops.
There's the possibility the Naylor equivalent elsewhere, already knows, or at least knows enough not to be surprised.This country is obsessed by wanting to out a gay footballer. Stephen Gateley had 24 hours to come out before a red top outed him.
Could a footballer go out for a cosy dinner with his boyfriend?
He could, but there would be a media storm. He would then be plagued by the media left, right and centre.
I'd probably opt for the quiet life and keep it a secret. I'm sure it's not as simple as coming out to friends and teammates. I think the initial hard part would be usurped by being gay and in a sport with the propensity for people to act vile.
I agree with you as far as team mates go. As for supporters, the players who are gay have an imagined version of what supporters are like. It's not really been tested.
It's not a genie you can put back in the bottle.
But given the society that football operates in, where fans that go to games are drawn from a country where many people work with, or have friends and family that are openly gay, and where gay marriage is legalised, I contend that there is a high likelihood that the issue will lose its charge very quickly.