brighton_b0y said:Regardless of what he meant. Any innocent people/person dying is very sad. For him to blatanly grab our attention with a thread title '640 dead in Bagdad' then in the next breath say i dont care, is utter callousness. It doesn't matter how many have died their recently. Imagine one of the hundreds that died was a family member of yours?
Wardywonderland said:I agree, plus if he realy did mean something else, he as had plenty of time to correct us on the issue.
are you his spokeman no seriously hampshire if his words were taken out of context he had plenty of time to say, but instead he stood by what he said in a very childish manner saying 'stick and stones etc' Hes blatanly an attention seeker, but as swindon said himself, school starts again soon.HampshireSeagulls said:I think this was his badly put point! I don't think he was mocking, I think he was making a point about desensitization, but ended up in a corner before he realised it. It is the sheer amount of people that die on a daily basis that means that he is unable to feel sorry for a remote number of people somewhere else. I think he was also making a point about how the other pilgrims appeared to ignore the deaths and carry on, but this is slightly contrived as you would not expect something like this to affect a pilgrimage (it happens in other religions - and to a certain extent it happens in football - "he would have wanted us to carry on...etc, etc". To be fair, the media did follow up on the grieving that was taking place, but the story was taken over by the USA flooding story, which is proving to be a "bigger" story than Iraq.
I think he was also making a point about the way the media reported it, then dropped it for the next story.
:swindon:Meade's_Ball said:I don't care about millions of people who die each year that i never hear about.
I only really have it in me to care for the lives of those i have some connection with. Yes, i can feel sadness for lives lost, but it's impossible to empathise, for me at least, and it only arises with photos confronting me in the papers or people making stupid comments online. I don't comprehend mortality and hope i never do. I've watched those i love die and seen a couple of those i don't go the same way. None of it makes sense.
Who can say that one person should grieve like the rest of us? Can i go up to someone and tell them not to mourn the loss of Princess Di even if i find it slightly ludicrous? Engine-lovers were devastated when Ayrton Senna died. I couldn't give a shit though. John Peel died and i felt awful for a while.
I can say that many people dying is a terrible thing, but i think my sorrow lasts for as long as i look at this thread. Then i'll look at one about shit books and forget.
I really don't know what my point is. Maybe there is a larger debate to be had, but i'm not sure it should stem from the original "thought" expressed here.
Regardless of what he meant. Any innocent people/person dying is very sad. For him to blatanly grab our attention with a thread title '640 dead in Bagdad' then in the next breath say i dont care, is utter callousness. It doesn't matter how many have died their recently. Imagine one of the hundreds that died was a family member of yours?
640 dead in Bagdad after a stampede at a religious shrine. For some reason I do not feel sorry
I'm not expecting you to grieve, but people dying is generally something that you feel sadness for, even if it occupys a second of your thoughts. It's generally classed as a sad thing. For you to post and say i feel nothing is fine, but im sure that most will feel sorrow. Not the same sorrow as if a memeber of your family died, but never the less isn't sad if 1000 women and children are crushed to death? I don't understand your way of thinking.swindonseagull said:
as Hampshire seagull has put it all the news from the middle east is bad news so therefore we get desensitsed.
none of them were my relations and I probably have never met any of them ( there is a minute chance I might have as I have been to Iraq 20Plus times. since the invasion.)
so how or why should I grieve for someone I have never met?
HampshireSeagulls said:I think this was his badly put point! I don't think he was mocking, I think he was making a point about desensitization
HampshireSeagulls said:Desensitisation is a definite factor