Indeed, so accept that it's not generally what Christians or Muslims think. They believe god gave man free will (Adam ate an apple) and so humans are responsible for their actions, but god has a general plan etc. All shit of course, but there's no need to say that any kind words from a religious person are meaningless.
Once again, there is the problem with this grey thinking. If men have free will then you cannot believe in gods plan/fate as well. If you believe god has a 'general plan' and men can make their own choices then you cannot also believe that god is omnipowerful and in control of everything. If you believe god can perform miracles to save few of the people last night in close scrapes then you must also accept that he killed the others.