Ted I also agree about parents should know at all times where their children are and that they should be appropriately punished if the children are under age. However as far as stopping any allowances they get as a punishment then in that case I think you really are pissing into the wind because then all these human right campaigners would come out of the woodwork beating on about how this family are underpriviliged and the hardship this will cause to the rest of the family.
Personally, I think its too late...the hoodie generation who would happily kick a man to death for daring to tell them to be quiet is here to stay, and I think the way forward is to contain it.
I don't think its too late - but i think the action required will be very hard for some people to swallow...whether or not there is a politician willing to stand up and risk it is another question...
I think (as I mentioned before):
Curfews
Parents serving time/community service together as punishment for their childs crimes
ASBOS on parents as well as children for the childs anti social behaviour
Child benefits removed from families who have kids who have committed a crime
and some how or other getting teachers back the power they deserve - although that I don't know how to do....
and so on....
its tough medicine but would certainly open a few eyes...
Its all well and good for parents to tell teachers not to touch their children (and I would be in that camp too!) but then who should be teaching that child? at the moment its falling to no-one....
I agree with you about teachers but to make it a crime for a parent to smack a child is ridiculous. I'll put my hand up (and might well be the only one on here) to smacking my children when they were younger and deserved it. It didn't do them a bit of harm. Discipline should start at home but if the ones at home were never disciplined then where does one start trying to enforce it now.
Agree with much that DTG and Tede say but would like to add that the absence of police walking a beat has greatly contributed to the terror on our streets. Okay I'm an old fogie but I do remember that when I was a lad living in Hangleton the local bobby always seemed to be around and stopped trouble before it got out of hand. He knew where we lived and our parents. So we learnt how to behave on the streets and treat people and property with respect. Since cops have travelled around in cars, graffiti, litter, violence have all increased. We lost the streets ages ago and now can only firefight.
Of course parents are the key to teaching civilised behaviour but many parents of today themselves have not been taught how to behave so there have to be tough outside controls.
I also think that movies/tv and PC games have made violence seem acceptable and there needs to be more control of them.
I also think that movies/tv and PC games have made violence seem acceptable and there needs to be more control of them.
I agree 100%. The games you see are an utter disgrace. Why do you need a 'game' where you 'play' a gunman, or a serial killer. They are so real now too, and the ratings system on them is pointless as the parents don't seem to give two shits about what their kids play.
I'd ban the lot - seriously.
But then we won't let our kids play with toy guns so we're probably 'too liberal'.
not to be over flippant here, but i am sure that a factor in this is the breakdown of family life and family values. Going all Daily mail here, but when I was a kid, respect was something your family drummed into you at an early age. You had respect for the Police ( you never ever dreamed of talking back to a copper), respect for teachers( teachers had dicipline and the power of dicipline - now eroded away), more importantly, respect for your family, parents , grand parents, brothers and sisters. The Catherine Tate "am I bovvered" sketches are so near to the truth that they are scary.
Personally, I think its too late...the hoodie generation who would happily kick a man to death for daring to tell them to be quiet is here to stay, and I think the way forward is to contain it.