Birdie Boy
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- Jun 17, 2011
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Yes but bare in mind the department he was in was 99% men.Are you sure?
Yes but bare in mind the department he was in was 99% men.Are you sure?
Oh. It’s just the women he did it to didn’t seem to think it was just his way and he meant no harm.Yes but bear in mind the department he was in was 99% men.
I'm 50, and I wouldn't have bantered like that in my first place of work 30 years ago, let alone with people who might be the equivalent of guests and contestants. Just a matter of taste and manners.My 2p worth, whole thing is absolutely absurd, yes, it is a little weird what he said and did, and yes, he should probably have gone a while ago as it isn’t acceptable doing that at work, however, was it really that bad?! probably not. It just feels like yet another which hunt and for once, I feel sorry for the hunted. ALOT of people banter this way, and most aren’t really fussed by it. It might not be entirely acceptable now, but that’s because people are wet flannels today.
We are coming to a point where you really cannot laugh and joke anymore.
If they didn’t like it, then just say, if they felt intimidated, then is that really him or should there be better safeguards?
Humiliating people is still common place?Not condoning his behaviour but most blokes in my office years ago would have been shown the door for the rude jokes and innuendos regularly spoken.
I'm NOT saying what he has said is right but sadly this has been common place in many workplaces for years. It's interesting that all of a sudden now we're looking to make examples of people. My grandson works on a building site and says the language and topics of discussion (by the Greg Wallace standards) would see them all sacked before even laying a brick (and there are quite a few women on site too) - no innuendo meant!
It's a bit nuts all this, 'back in my day', 'can't say anything anymore', - decent people never said this shite period!If I’d have walked into the office I worked in in the mid 90’s and said to someone who had a visitor badge on “hey guess what me and the Mrs did in bed this morning…”
I’d have been out the door quicker than my legs could carry me and quite right too.
Exactly.It's a bit nuts all this, 'back in my day', 'can't say anything anymore', - decent people never said this shite period!
I didn't ask everyone...Oh. It’s just the women he did it to didn’t seem to think it was just his way and he meant no harm.
Yet you claim most people said it was just how he is.I didn't ask everyone...
I think the post you quoted was a joke related to being in a lift unless I've been whooshed...Definitely but at the time everyone said he meant nothing by it and it was just his way.... I never met him so no idea
Does seem that some people revel in making others feel uncomfortable, putting people down and making them feel small. Other celebs can usually move on but for contestants such incidents leave a horrible stain, it must be devastating .Humiliating people is still common place?
The woke brigade, stopping normal people having a bit of bantz since at least the 90s.Exactly.
As far back as I can remember, anyone who said off things to people at work were given their marching orders.
I worked at Legal & General in the 90’s.
I’m just thinking how bizarre it would be if our line manager had come into the office, topless, saying what he’d done to his wife that morning.
This kind of behaviour has never been normal.
It wouldn’t have been that woke. Anyone acting like that to women in the 90’s would have likely got a smack in the face for their troubles before being sacked.The woke brigade, stopping normal people having a bit of bantz since at least the 90s.
I'm 50, and I wouldn't have bantered like that in my first place of work 30 years ago, let alone with people who might be the equivalent of guests and contestants. Just a matter of taste and manners.
If you think that kind of banter signifies having a 'laugh and a joke' then it says more about your own sense of humour. Lewd sexist behaviour hasn't been funny in my entire lifetime.
In any kind of professional environment people don't banter in this way and haven't done for years. For some reason celebrity status has kept certain people out of it, probably because they hold the cards of who is going to be believed in the 'he said, she said' stakes.
Ricky Gervais did all this with the 'Office' 20 odd years ago. Being a twat isn't funny and never has been!
What should be done about it?Knew this would get the reaction it did on here.
It’s just my take on it. Love how some get personal and try to judge my character because of an opinion based on something we all don’t know the exact facts about. Classic.
Classic social media flannel brigade.
Never said what he did is right, I said its weird, shouldn’t have said it etc..but should we ruin someones life over it? No.
No we wouldn’t.If I any of us acted in the same way in our place of work then we’d be sacked. It’s not about being cancelled, it’s not about a media circus it’s about behaviours that are unacceptable in the work place.
Plenty of information and links in this thread...what did he do and say?