Agree that short-termism is contributing to the problem. That is global though, a consequence of not only social media but all kinds of media. Faster music, faster cuts and story development in movies, faster video games with faster rewards... and since our brains are affected by what we feed it, there's consequences.Because adversity builds you and prepares you for life. Having to do shit things means you appreciate it properly when you don't have to do shit things anymore. And enables you to deal with shit things when they inevitably come along again.
Young people might look at something and say that looks shit I'm not doing that, because they see people on Instagram earning millions from taking photos of themselves. But just because a job looks shit now, it will lead to other things if you do it well. And the journey to success is as much about the journey as it is the end goal. And I think that is what people have lost sight of- winning the lottery sounds great, but most of those people end up unfulfilled (and often skint) if it happens too early.
I really believe that is a massive part of the problem, the 'I want instant success' attitude that social media brings. I can totally see why a 16 year old would think stacking shelves at Sainsbury's for £7 an hour is a crap job, and it is. But I have a mate that did that at 16 and is now a Director of Sainsbury's in his 30's with a massive house and seems to spend half his life in the Caribbean. I've had young people quit my company after 6 months (who were actually doing really well) because they 'weren't seeing any success'. 6 f***ing months!! We seem to have lost all patience as a nation, and that is part of the problem.
Each day there's more data on how to make people addicted to video games and whatnot so every day the opportunity to tie people to a bunch of micro transactions (time or money) to get quick rewards (a new axe in your video game and a good feeling in the hunter-gathered part of the brain).
Of course all the kids know things doesn't work like that in reality, it isn't The Sims where you build a life in a day. Some parts of the brain will however completely ignore what the kids know or don't know. Working for £7 an hour at a crap job might seem reasonable to them - but a complete nightmare to their nervous systems that just want instant pleasure and reward.