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Does anyone have mental health problems?
- Thread starter Sussex Nomad
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- Oct 20, 2022
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I hope you get the help you need Pearl.
The MH services are desperately lacking at the moment. I and my GP have been fighting for 6 months to get me MH support for my declining physical health and the daily overwhelming pain and debilitating fatigue - even the MH crisis outreach assessment team, my Neurology Consultant, the autism services, the long Covid clinic, the Cognitive rehab team and two clinical therapists at the GP practice (not qualified enough to help) have all said I needed urgent ongoing psychotherapy - but still having to cope alone and had repeated referrals turned down much to the shock of my GP.
It really is a difficult time to be needing support from the NHS. Hopefully your area has better funding than mine.
Keep the faith.
The MH services are desperately lacking at the moment. I and my GP have been fighting for 6 months to get me MH support for my declining physical health and the daily overwhelming pain and debilitating fatigue - even the MH crisis outreach assessment team, my Neurology Consultant, the autism services, the long Covid clinic, the Cognitive rehab team and two clinical therapists at the GP practice (not qualified enough to help) have all said I needed urgent ongoing psychotherapy - but still having to cope alone and had repeated referrals turned down much to the shock of my GP.
It really is a difficult time to be needing support from the NHS. Hopefully your area has better funding than mine.
Keep the faith.
Tom Hark Preston Park
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- Jul 6, 2003
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Sorry to hear that @pearl, NSC is here for you. I've never met you, but you and your Doc Martens did a massive favour for me once. Hoping the memory will make you smile
Shit down here too. Even though I have triggered a private referral (autism) nothing is happening. And anyway, what are they going to do? Tell me I don't process well information 'written between the lines'? No shit.I hope you get the help you need Pearl.
The MH services are desperately lacking at the moment. I and my GP have been fighting for 6 months to get me MH support for my declining physical health and the daily overwhelming pain and debilitating fatigue - even the MH crisis outreach assessment team, my Neurology Consultant, the autism services, the long Covid clinic, the Cognitive rehab team and two clinical therapists at the GP practice (not qualified enough to help) have all said I needed urgent ongoing psychotherapy - but still having to cope alone and had repeated referrals turned down much to the shock of my GP.
It really is a difficult time to be needing support from the NHS. Hopefully your area has better funding than mine.
Keep the faith.
Anyway.....I can deal with the endogenous anxiety. I deal with the interpersonal interaction problems. Less easy to deal with are exogenous stressors such as the nightmare situation with a close family member (which I told you about in a PM, Zeb). But I have learned to accept the broken sleep and catastrophizing. Maybe it's because I have been through it all before. Such a waste of time though.
As for 'what's the point?'. Luckily I have never imagined there is a point. We are born, we live, we die. Best to inhale as much life as one can while one can, and try to make life better for those in the penumbra, friends and family, in my case my students, my research community.... even if they aren't worth it
. Black humour helps.Best wishes to those struggling. Put on some of that fine music you love, @pearl.
- Oct 20, 2022
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Sorry HWT - I feel gutted you are also struggling (and still with the family issue).Shit down here too. Even though I have triggered a private referral (autism) nothing is happening. And anyway, what are they going to do? Tell me I don't process well information 'written between the lines'? No shit.
Anyway.....I can deal with the endogenous anxiety. I deal with the interpersonal interaction problems. Less easy to deal with are exogenous stressors such as the nightmare situation with a close family member (which I told you about in a PM, Zeb). But I have learned to accept the broken sleep and catastrophizing. Maybe it's because I have been through it all before. Such a waste of time though.
As for 'what's the point?'. Luckily I have never imagined there is a point. We are born, we live, we die. Best to inhale as much life as one can while one can, and try to make life better for those in the penumbra, friends and family, in my case my students, my research community.... even if they aren't worth it
Best wishes to those struggling. Put on some of that fine music you love, @pearl.
We really do need to meet up for a game preceded by a very long beer - can your wife drop you off at the UoS bar then pick up you up there after the match
DavePage
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Is this still the Tuchel thread?
Sorry HWT - I feel gutted you are also struggling (and still with the family issue).
We really do need to meet up for a game preceded by a very long beer - can your wife drop you off at the UoS bar then pick up you up there after the match
Mrs T might drop me off one time if (finally) hooking up with Mrs HR, but with a teenager with ADHD, leaving Fav at a timely hour isn't normally on the menu.As for the other....it is what it is. And nobody died. As Holly (eventually) said "They're all alive Dave".
In other news, Tommy Tootle is the new England Manager. You heard it here first!
See post above
DavePage
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This is a football forum and to be honest Tuchel has shown disturbing traits during his career, no disrespect meant any other sufferersSee post above
I hope things improve for you. Your problems are of course real. As is your reaction to them.
I consider myself rather resilient but lately I’m feeling a little overwhelmed by life. Work mainly but some other niggles that I build into huge things in my head when I’m feeling anxious.
I have some coping strategies but at the moment they’re not being that effective.
But that’s my issue.
Well done for speaking up on here. It does help.
Considering yourself resilient can add to your anxiety. Give yourself a break and accept that you aren’t invincible. Worry about what really matters and only if you can do something about it. Work issues can really drag you down …… even when they’re not that important.
I wish you well.
Greenbag50
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- Jun 1, 2016
- 486
I have kidney disease. Kids may have it as well.
Stress is, what have I passed on to them, PKCKD.
It’s unseen, unkown, could be nothing.
I know I have it, but it’s silent to them.
They know it runs in family and I have efgr of 37
Stress of not knowing if they are affected, but don’t want to alarm them.
Just saying….
Get on with it
Stress is, what have I passed on to them, PKCKD.
It’s unseen, unkown, could be nothing.
I know I have it, but it’s silent to them.
They know it runs in family and I have efgr of 37
Stress of not knowing if they are affected, but don’t want to alarm them.
Just saying….
Get on with it
BadFish
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- Oct 19, 2003
- 17,987
I find listening to podcasts really helps me, it is one single thing to focus your mind on and anchor it away from jumping around with intrusive thoughts. The same principal as what you are saying, just some focus that helps to aid sleep which is important.
There is a fantastic podcast about football finances that always sends me to sleep quickly*, Don't listen to it when driving!
*Of course I am joking @El Presidente, it is actually one of my favourite podcast that I listen to when awake so I don't miss anything, Not like the shite on the BBC
. I even gave its sister podcast the price of music a crack todaypearl
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Really sorry to hear your health problems Zeberdi. That's terrible. Are you in London? My thoughts are with you .... Keep the Faith xI hope you get the help you need Pearl.
The MH services are desperately lacking at the moment. I and my GP have been fighting for 6 months to get me MH support for my declining physical health and the daily overwhelming pain and debilitating fatigue - even the MH crisis outreach assessment team, my Neurology Consultant, the autism services, the long Covid clinic, the Cognitive rehab team and two clinical therapists at the GP practice (not qualified enough to help) have all said I needed urgent ongoing psychotherapy - but still having to cope alone and had repeated referrals turned down much to the shock of my GP.
It really is a difficult time to be needing support from the NHS. Hopefully your area has better funding than mine.
Keep the faith.