Yep. That.
Whatever way you slice it though Acker, whether we "should" have scored more is irrelevent. We had scored a goal, they hadn't, we were in the final few seconds of the game and a blatantly WRONG decision was made which handed Bournemouth a point.
Not a disputable decision.
Not a debatable decision.
A WRONG decision.
If Bournemouth had scored a legit equaliser, rifled one in from 20 yards, or maybe even scored from the free kick the ref originally gave, THEN we can bemoan not putting them away and blame ourselves. But to be robbed of the win by a patently incorrect decision is much, much harder to take. Lua Lua's goal and that decision were the two defining moments of that match, and are the events which exclusively shaped the scoreline.
I can't have that.
Barnes didn't DECIDE to fluff those half-chances. Lua Lua didn't DECIDE to lose possession. Those are just moments, amongst hundreds and thousands of moments, that happen during the ebb and flow of a game. Even if we'd missed a penalty in that 2nd half to go 2-0 up, it wouldn't alter the fact that a concious, deliberate, incorrect decision OUTSIDE the laws of the game was made by the officials in the dying seconds.
THATS what cost us the game. A game which by rights, and if the rules of the game had been correctly applied by the officials, we'd done enough to win.
They didn't decide to fluff it, or lose possession, but Barnes did decide to chest it down instead of head it, LuaLua did decide to try to take on one more person. This resulted in a fluffed shot and lost possession.
A wrong decision is a wrong decision whether it follows the laws of the game or not.
If the rules of the game had been applied, both teams would be down to ten men (Symes for elbowing Elphick, Murray for elbowing their player) Murray would never have been there to fall over at the merest touch, and even if you argue he wouldn't have gone because his elbow was accidental, so if he was there to throw himself to the floor, the ref wouldn't have given the free kick because it wasn't a foul so we'd've never been 1-0 up in the first place.
Well, these instances are down to the refs interpretation, and yes, it can be argued he got them wrong as well - but its not quite as cut and dried or as directly result-altering as a horrendously fouled-up LINE call wrongly giving Bournemouth a penalty to score with the last kick of the game.
Sorry, but I can't agree with that.*
*it wasn't the last kick of the game. You may recall that in the remaining seconds AFTER the goal, he manged to award them another soft free kick just outside the box, to give B'muff the chance to steal all three points...
Not really.
There is a difference between an official making a wrong decision as regards the LAWS of the game, and a player making a "wrong decision" in the way he plays the game, ie what he decides to do in any given situation. What the player decides to do may result in a disappointing outcome from our point of view (ie the chance is missed), but it does not lead to an INCORRECT outcome.
What the officials did in awarding a penalty when the ball was outside the box was a WRONG decision within the laws of the game. A wrong call. Just like the dunderhead who gave Rochdale a penalty when the ball was dead. Its a wrong decision, which has meant an incorrect outcome to the match. Its directly affected the result.
There's no such thing as an incorrect outcome. If there was a right and wrong outcome, the FA would be able to, when faced with mistakes such as this, be able to say "the correct result is 1-0 brighton, so the records will be changed".
The problem being, there's no way of proving that what we got from the wrong decision wouldn't have happened with the right decision. If he'd've given a freekick and they scored from it the game ends 1-1. It wouldn't be the "incorrect outcome", would it? The "correct outcome" could have always been 1-1, they just needed a helping hand from crappy officiating to attain it.
Perhaps it's unfair on the balance of play, perhaps it's controversial, but it isn't 'incorrect' because there's no 'correct'. There is only what is.
There absolutely IS a 'correct' - he made the correct decision the first time round, but was then talked out of it by the lino. As you say, theres a (small) chance that they might have banged in that free kick for 1-1, and had THAT happened, we could have absolutely no complaints. We'll never know for definite.
But it doesn't alter the fact that as a direct result of a patently incorrect decision being given, the referee effectively awarded Bournemouth a draw on a plate and materially and directly altered the result of the game. It was a catastrophic error of judgement.