BensGrandad
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The Northstander said:Not allowed to give a bad one, they can confirmed @Joe Bloggs worked here! end
Doesnt sound to good eh?
Not true you can say what you like on a reference good or bad provided you can back it up or stand the risk of being sued.
If you can irrefutably prove a person stole from you it is permissible to say you sacked the person for stealing but if you can't prove it god help you.
As regards the dilemna that you are in better the second because as the saying goes 'be good to those on your way up because you may see them on your way down'.