Recently moved away from a really hoirrible place where i had lived for 20 odd years... Was round the ex mother in laws and told her my daughter was having a party for her 6th birthday, but i wouldnt be inviting any of the 'scum' from Lewisham (where i used to live) then suddenly realised I was sitting in her living room in LEWISHAM arghhhhhhhhh
queuing as we came out of church at a friend's dad's funeral I was struggling to think of some comforting words to say to the widow. What made me say "how nice it is to see you here"!