Looking Back...

[Da Man Clay]

Quite simple as it only happened last week. Mrs P was given the all clear 5 years after having breast cancer.

 

[1066gull]

Something I was very, and still am to a certain extent that happened when I was in Year 9.

I fancied this girl who currently was going out with someone in my form, they had been going out for about 6 months or something. Can't remember the details but it was a fair bit.

Anyhow, some people had a fair idea, because I wasn't one of the cleverest when it came to social interaction or women, and I guess it still applies a little now, although I hope I have learnt many lessons including this one.

One evening, I think it was a Tuesday or Wednesday - sometime in the middle of the week I know I received a voice mail on my phone. It was allegedly from the girl I fancied, I didn't have her number and we rarely had good communication but she said 'She loved me, wanted to go out with me and asked me to come over to her and kiss her at break'.

That evening I got really excited, embarrassed, shy, the lot basically as I never and been through this situation. I just realised I did have her number!! But I was to gullible to realise that it was a different number that texted me and left a voicemail. So I phone back the number that left the voicemail (or they rang again) and asking it was true reiterating the point. It is ended by something like "Come over to me and kiss me tomorrow".

Two hours later I ring her actual number, and this time she says she don't love me at all, and kept hanging up. I kept ringing her until MIDNIGHT basically harassing her, why why why and then ring one of my (then) "mates" who is best friends with her. I am crying down the phone all confused and such saying I wanted to do suicide after realising NOW that it was a prank by one of her (male) friends.

I then ring her up as soon as I woke up in the MORNING before school asking her "do you still love me" even though I had been told it wasn't really her.

I than had my Head of Year at me, but because I was a confused, emotional, pathetic cry baby he dealt with the matter lightly - although what I was doing was improper harassment.




It was the time when I severely damaged my relationship within myself and my year group. Whatever little thing happened, that was effectively nothing, I reported or 'dobbed' in to the teachers meaning they didn't know what to do because when they tried to be friendly, I reported it and they got in trouble!

I still did other things up to Year 11, beginning of Year 12 even (getting someone suspended and not being suspended myself in Year 13 for hitting someone).

I really wouldn't mind starting my whole secondary school life, as it would mean I would lead a better life. Plus, I would be following the Albion through the MA days.....


To the point: I basically stalked someone. I try and rephrase it as I don't like saying it as it is, but the fact is I did. Maybe you should of said I was harshly victimised, but all it was, was a small schoolboy prank. They were just having a laugh, and he was even on my school bus journey so we knew each other relatively well - its just I didn't really know how to socialise or deal with other people and their feelings.

 

[Ice Man]

I obviously don't have a life, because i can't think of anything that stands out that isn't sport related.

I'll get back to you later..

You're not alone on that one!

 

[RM-Taylor]

Adrie if they left a voice message well wouldn't you hear their voice, or were they putting on a girl accent

 

[Withdean Wanderer]

Something I was very, and still am to a certain extent that happened when I was in Year 9.

I fancied this girl who currently was going out with someone in my form, they had been going out for about 6 months or something. Can't remember the details but it was a fair bit.

Anyhow, some people had a fair idea, because I wasn't one of the cleverest when it came to social interaction or women, and I guess it still applies a little now, although I hope I have learnt many lessons including this one.

One evening, I think it was a Tuesday or Wednesday - sometime in the middle of the week I know I received a voice mail on my phone. It was allegedly from the girl I fancied, I didn't have her number and we rarely had good communication but she said 'She loved me, wanted to go out with me and asked me to come over to her and kiss her at break'.

That evening I got really excited, embarrassed, shy, the lot basically as I never and been through this situation. I just realised I did have her number!! But I was to gullible to realise that it was a different number that texted me and left a voicemail. So I phone back the number that left the voicemail (or they rang again) and asking it was true reiterating the point. It is ended by something like "Come over to me and kiss me tomorrow".

Two hours later I ring her actual number, and this time she says she don't love me at all, and kept hanging up. I kept ringing her until MIDNIGHT basically harassing her, why why why and then ring one of my (then) "mates" who is best friends with her. I am crying down the phone all confused and such saying I wanted to do suicide after realising NOW that it was a prank by one of her (male) friends.

I then ring her up as soon as I woke up in the MORNING before school asking her "do you still love me" even though I had been told it wasn't really her.

I than had my Head of Year at me, but because I was a confused, emotional, pathetic cry baby he dealt with the matter lightly - although what I was doing was improper harassment.




It was the time when I severely damaged my relationship within myself and my year group. Whatever little thing happened, that was effectively nothing, I reported or 'dobbed' in to the teachers meaning they didn't know what to do because when they tried to be friendly, I reported it and they got in trouble!

I still did other things up to Year 11, beginning of Year 12 even (getting someone suspended and not being suspended myself in Year 13 for hitting someone).

I really wouldn't mind starting my whole secondary school life, as it would mean I would lead a better life. Plus, I would be following the Albion through the MA days.....


To the point: I basically stalked someone. I try and rephrase it as I don't like saying it as it is, but the fact is I did. Maybe you should of said I was harshly victimised, but all it was, was a small schoolboy prank. They were just having a laugh, and he was even on my school bus journey so we knew each other relatively well - its just I didn't really know how to socialise or deal with other people and their feelings.

If that's your greatest moment, i dread to think what your worst one is!

:shouldn't laugh:

 

[1066gull]

If that's your greatest moment, i dread to think what your worst one is!

:shouldn't laugh:

I thought this was our worst :/

 

[Da Man Clay]

We are after the best though Adrie.

 

[Goring Gull]

I thought this was our worst :/

No

Never mind you've got it out now.

 

[Muhammed - I’m hard - Bruce Lee]

ok....where do i start?

first tour of northern ireland 1978 my best mate head blown off while i am 12 foot of him.

second tour of northern ireland 1981 second best mate (f*** being my mate innit) foot blown off

then....i had 6 months off before we went to PROPER war

1982 bring it on!

only lost 4 mates this conflict
but i must of killed about 5 times that amount


bollox....thats what i joined up for innit



or was it?

 

[Muhammed - I’m hard - Bruce Lee]

ok....where do i start?

first tour of northern ireland 1978 my best mate head blown off while i am 12 foot of him.

second tour of northern ireland 1981 second best mate (f*** being my mate innit) foot blown off

then....i had 6 months off before we went to PROPER war

1982 bring it on!

only lost 4 mates this conflict
but i must of killed about 5 times that amount


bollox....thats what i joined up for innit



or was it?

NOW HAVE A FUCKIN GO YOU BUNCH OF PUSSY'S

 

[Da Man Clay]

Im sure this thread was for greatest memories. RIP all of your friends and commorades GD.

 

[Muhammed - I’m hard - Bruce Lee]

SORRY..........but ive got all emotional now

i know i may take the piss and slag people off

but not many people have gone what ive been through.....and i hope you never have to

 

[Muhammed - I’m hard - Bruce Lee]

Im sure this thread was for greatest memories. RIP all of your friends and commorades GD.

im pissed m8

i may have mis read the thread but thanks anyway m8

 

[Djmiles]

I obviously don't have a life, because i can't think of anything that stands out that isn't sport related.

Join the club!