My mother-in-law was badgered into going to live with the son, with him saying," sell the house and he will look after her if she ( yes she) paid for a granny annex 40K to be put on the side of his bungalow out of the sale of her house".
She was in poor health and 3 of the 6 siblings wanted to go into a warden assisted flat.
She was coaxed into going into this annex after lots of promises of looking after her, seeing grandkids etc.
After she moves in during the next 18 months extra building work , loft extension, new drive seemed to be happening TO THE SONS part of the bungalow and the son was getting loans from the mother out of the excess from the sale of the house which the other siblings didn't know about.
She went downhill and died a month ago and the son threw out all the items they didn't want from the annex and the executor had to pick them up from under a tarpaulin in his drive in the rain,and the son kept what he wanted but 2 siblings who are executors cannot get access to get the rest of the items from the annex which they should be able to do.
The son says that its now his house and you can't come in.
Also what happens to the loan(yes it was a loan) that he borrowed from his mother that he still owes well into 5 figures. which should be part of the estate of the other 5 siblings?
Not only has he gained an extension to his property but he got a loan he didn't pay back and has kept other items from the annex
Plus he is a copper
What should the executor do, sensible answers please
She was in poor health and 3 of the 6 siblings wanted to go into a warden assisted flat.
She was coaxed into going into this annex after lots of promises of looking after her, seeing grandkids etc.
After she moves in during the next 18 months extra building work , loft extension, new drive seemed to be happening TO THE SONS part of the bungalow and the son was getting loans from the mother out of the excess from the sale of the house which the other siblings didn't know about.
She went downhill and died a month ago and the son threw out all the items they didn't want from the annex and the executor had to pick them up from under a tarpaulin in his drive in the rain,and the son kept what he wanted but 2 siblings who are executors cannot get access to get the rest of the items from the annex which they should be able to do.
The son says that its now his house and you can't come in.
Also what happens to the loan(yes it was a loan) that he borrowed from his mother that he still owes well into 5 figures. which should be part of the estate of the other 5 siblings?
Not only has he gained an extension to his property but he got a loan he didn't pay back and has kept other items from the annex
Plus he is a copper
What should the executor do, sensible answers please